Problems on job

Hi guys,

Sorry for the brief message, but I have BPD and I recently broke up with a co-worker. I love my job and it’s s big help with my BPD, but i’m afraid I will grow to hate it because of this personal situation.
Anyone who has already dealt with this?

Thank you!

oh my gosh... I just broke it off with my colleague on the very same day too...
I think the best is.. to get a good closure, and don't make it ugly...

I took my weekend to grieve and to prepare myself for the lost.. I did everything within my capacity to make it work but it's not working out.. so I took the space to cry, to listen to some sad music, to sing along with it, watched the sunset... hit the gym.. and I took all of my time to feel sad about it....
then I sent a polite, sincere and heartfelt goodbye message (brief and straight to the point with emotions, moderate emotions)
and then I will move on.

the more we process it, the less likely we will let it overwhelm us and turn us into hating the job.
I love my job and I am doing well at where I am so I don't want to risk it either.

I am sorry that your relationship ended.. it's painful.. I know.. I hope that you can take your time to grieve, let your wound heal slowly and move on....