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Re: She goes cold

Postby eterea107 » Sat May 20, 2017 12:30 am

Mr_Mogwai wrote:could be the case. I was planning to mirror her behaviour and see what happens next.


I've heard the term...but will you please explain? Act in kind...same behavior by you to her?
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Re: She goes cold

Postby Sixoclock0 » Sat May 20, 2017 3:17 pm

I was snuggling with someone and they were being affectionate, lovely. After a while they got frustrated and noted that I was playing hard to get.
That's okay, it's a common demeanor. BUT the reality was I just wasn't in the mood for anything else. Their will is not the only one to be verified and authorized, mine count's as well.
Presenting an opposing opinion is usually not about playing games. But that person simply disagrees with you. Yes it is possible. Yes it's possible they just changed their minds.
Mirroring them can hardly help, it sounds like you're more interested in playing games than you are about this girl. It is a fair cause to be rejected.
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Re: She goes cold

Postby julllia » Sat May 20, 2017 4:32 pm

if you find out, explain it to me too.because i have no idea why i irrationally turn hot and cold.i do not try to consciously manipulate others.i just feel something and i have to do it.
but not everyone is the same

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also i think mirroring might work.i do that sometimes.but it could fail also
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