Revenge...

Good morning guys and girls. Do any of you have revenge fantasies often? Are they violent? How often do you enact them?

I very often have fantasies but rarely do anything to those I feel have harmed me, until they've gone too far and I snap - all our nothing in everything!

Yes. My current one's are:
1. Calling the police on my ex who has a criminal record related to drugs to inform them he has illegal drugs at his apartment, so then he'll be sent to jail or prison.
2. Going and smashing all the windows on his vehicle.

& then this is kind of different but sometimes I wish I gave two of my exes incurable sti's/diseases.. but alas I'm clean so that can't happen. There was also wishing I was pregnant with two of my exes kids, and then not even letting the one ex ever see the kid.. and "trapping" the other ex into staying with me. I'd never intentionally trap someone, but if I was pregnant after we broke up I would have kept it just so he'd be stuck in my life in one way or another.

I'd never go through with the revenge ideas though. I'm not a bad person. I may have bad thoughts, but I can control myself. Even when someone has done something to me I don't feel the need. It's nice to fantasize about though.

I was homicidal for quite some time, it was a terribly daunting experience.

I have elaborate and detailed homicidal fantasies but I try to not get engulfed in them.. it's harder when I get paranoid cause then I just wanna get them before they get me. But as long as they leave me alone it's probably fine cause I have something worth living for. Unfortunately I tend to exaggerate my responses.. which I don't think they know about. So they'd probably feel kinda awkward after sending me a threatening letter and then dealing with me when I'm on a mission.

i used to have. i once dreamed of seeing my enemy on the street in a distraught condition. turned out i ended up in that situation.

guess its true that if ur going for revenge, dig a graveyard for yourself.

jaus tail wrote:i used to have. i once dreamed of seeing my enemy on the street in a distraught condition. turned out i ended up in that situation.

guess its true that if ur going for revenge, dig a graveyard for yourself.

this.. revenge has seldom brought me any satisfaction.. be aware that you may feel empty afterwards - and have to deal with some kind of guilt as well.. my wife has showed me that just carrying on with your life makes a loud statement..