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Heckled at work - Surprised at how it hit me - Possible*TW*

Postby gemchakra » Sat Mar 11, 2017 3:50 pm

I was diagnosed with BPD in September. Since dx, My boss' bully wife (who I also think may have BPD but doesn't even have a clue as to how she is or hasn't any desire to get help) heckled me. *TW* She can be mean, but she actually walked behind me at work on Thursday singing a little song of, "My name is ***, and I'm a weirdo." It was innocent and malicious all at once. Surprised at how it hit me. Thank goodness it was at the end of the work day. Was crying before even got to my car to go home from work. It had been a stressful week, so maybe I was particularly vulnerable. But maybe things like that is why the BPD symptoms started as teen. Interesting.
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Re: Heckled at work - Surprised at how it hit me - Possible*TW*

Postby jaus tail » Mon Mar 13, 2017 4:34 pm

after my breakdown at work, a few colleagues passed some remarks at me. i didnt mind much.
i did have an urge to just throw something around in a fit of rage. i'm glad i didnt do that.

its okay. i dont care much about colleagues. instead i think of friends who i have n vent to them.
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Re: Heckled at work - Surprised at how it hit me - Possible*TW*

Postby madjoe » Mon Mar 13, 2017 8:06 pm

i remember heving a "breakddown" at work
everyone was afraid of me and i felt like a god
that's bad right?

@op are you male or female and what age?
(the world is sexist and a man need to react differend than a woman)
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Re: Heckled at work - Surprised at how it hit me - Possible*TW*

Postby dtc_33 » Mon Mar 13, 2017 11:21 pm

madjoe wrote:(the world is sexist and a man need to react differend than a woman)


It's exepected that a male should react differently to a female, but they don't need to.
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Re: Heckled at work - Surprised at how it hit me - Possible*TW*

Postby madjoe » Tue Mar 14, 2017 4:50 pm

do you think men and women sould be the same?
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Re: Heckled at work - Surprised at how it hit me - Possible*TW*

Postby Elastic Heart » Wed Mar 15, 2017 1:35 pm

What a b. Hope you feel better soon, gemchakra. <3
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