Secret Hatred

How can I stop thinking that everyone secretly hates me? I'm guessing this is from the borderline paranoid ideation. It's like I can sense they're up in flames with me and I got to frantically do something like a positive energy asteroid to make them not secretly hate me. I've annoyed people to death with this belief/delusion. Being schizotypal with borderline features is Hell.

When you have these thoughts that people hate you, is it like random people on the streets, or is it people who know you enough to know some of your annoying traits? Because there's a difference between thinking strangers hate you for no reason, and thinking everybody hates you because there's a good reason for it.

it could be that people u know may hate you. like envy you. galileo was hated. at school the loner is bullied.

u dont have to change their perception. as long as they are not hurting you, let them waste their time thinking about you.

i used to go to ridiculous extents to make others like me. it was desperation from my side.
now i dont care. i mean its good to be liked but overall i am indifferent if someone isnt my fan.

a few friends are all you need.

I do have that often too, though much more often with people I am actually in some form of contact of. Rarely strangers, though that does happen too.

My daughter gets that feeling a lot at school and work and I have to remind her that you can please some people all of the time and all of the people some of the time, but you cannot please all of the people all of the time.

People can hate you or like you, but if you aren't hanging out with them on a regular basis, what difference does it make how they feel about you. As long as they are nice to you when you are in their presence, it really doesn't matter unless they are someone close to you like a best friend or spouse or your family member that you see regularly.