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Re: the head ache of dating

Postby littlewing » Tue Aug 02, 2016 5:50 pm

These are all really good except for the girl who ordered the super expensive dinner and expected him to pay for it all. That's just so not how it works now. If a guy proposed an expensive restaurant on a first date, I would ask if we were splitting.
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Re: the head ache of dating

Postby wind runner » Tue Aug 02, 2016 6:04 pm

I had a friend go on a date and she was well n truly catfished, the guy was even the wrong race :lol: :lol:

Net dating is as far as I can make out a numbers game, go on enough and you will find one who is compatible
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Re: the head ache of dating

Postby littlewing » Tue Aug 02, 2016 7:06 pm

It's hard enough for normies to date online, so I am very wary of it. The uncertainty, rejection and disappointment is a lot to handle when you have serious attachment issues. I would have to be in a much better place to attempt that again.
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Re: the head ache of dating

Postby loneyhear » Tue Aug 02, 2016 11:16 pm

I must agree, online dating is a headache. I did get lucky once and had an alright relationship with this one guy, but it ended terribly. My reaction to the break up is actually what landed me my BPD diagnosis. Since then I've tried finding someone online again but it would be so much easier to somehow meet someone in real life.
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Re: the head ache of dating

Postby madjoe » Thu Aug 04, 2016 6:08 pm

if it'(s to mutch you can Always just get a coffee
https://munchies.vice.com/en/articles/t ... -macchiato
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Re: the head ache of dating

Postby wind runner » Fri Aug 05, 2016 7:47 am

madjoe wrote:if it'(s to mutch you can Always just get a coffee
https://munchies.vice.com/en/articles/t ... -macchiato


Too funny and very unexpected from a country like Switzerland.
What happens if you aren't into blow jobs and don't like coffee. I'll go to the cafe next door and get hot chocolate and anal lol :lol:
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Re: the head ache of dating

Postby madjoe » Fri Aug 12, 2016 7:51 am

do you want that coffee with cream?
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Re: the head ache of dating

Postby Echinacea » Fri Aug 12, 2016 8:13 am

madjoe wrote:do you want that coffee with cream?

Thanks madjoe for the images i have right now :P
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Re: the head ache of dating

Postby madjoe » Fri Aug 12, 2016 8:20 am

i'm in your head
soon i'll be in your bed
and you can give me ...
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Re: the head ache of dating

Postby wind runner » Fri Aug 12, 2016 8:40 am

....meds
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