Black & white perception

1. could the the black & white perception follow the pattern of an all or none?

2. is it possible to continuously bounce back & forth of being B & W even after months of being apart?

3. if so then wouldn't this go against the theory of "object constancy" because we don't see each other only email?

My thoughts are this PD needs to have constant stimulation whether it be from a current or previous souce of supply & multiple people as far as that goes. I also have suspicion of HPD.

She likes telling me about her dates, jealousy doesn't work with me since i have devine intervention support. i just listen & talk with this person as she talks about her various experiences. why does she share her experiences with me when i am an ex from months back?

is she looking for supply, because i no longer give it or is she comparing men? or building the fragile ego that appears so broken

any thoughts on this behavior from a BPD/HPD person?