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What turns you off?

Postby jabberwocky » Sat Mar 26, 2016 4:53 pm

I thought this thread would be a good companion to the 'What Turns You On' thread. :)

I'll start...

1) Smokers, I have not and will not ever be with a smoker, even for one night.

2) No sense of humor; lighten up, it's only life! :)
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Re: What turns you off?

Postby BloodSoda » Sat Mar 26, 2016 5:18 pm

Hipsters :mrgreen:
Being the emotional equivalent of the energizer bunny is hard.
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Re: What turns you off?

Postby Katy9591 » Sat Mar 26, 2016 5:19 pm

meanness
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Re: What turns you off?

Postby Cyberfang » Sat Mar 26, 2016 5:20 pm

Smokers (cigarettes) bad hygiene, negative/obnoxious attitude.
there's no such thing as true good or true evil, its all relative to the observer.
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Re: What turns you off?

Postby Lusid » Sat Mar 26, 2016 6:11 pm

Cowardice. When people have expectations I've already explained I can't live up to. General dependeny, like not having your own place or income. Weakness and complacency.
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Re: What turns you off?

Postby Rigning » Sat Mar 26, 2016 6:48 pm

Cavillers, like the people of this thread.
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Re: What turns you off?

Postby Hallanvaara » Sat Mar 26, 2016 6:51 pm

..Depends where from.
But not much really, with the exception of DOGmatism. But such mindset doesn't - for obvious reasons, leave much room for maneuver. Just a dead-end interaction.
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Re: What turns you off?

Postby Lusid » Sat Mar 26, 2016 6:52 pm

Rigning wrote:Cavillers, like the people of this thread.


You don't mean that babe.

-- Sat Mar 26, 2016 7:54 pm --

Rigning wrote:Cavillers, like the people of this thread.


You don't mean that babe.

-- Sat Mar 26, 2016 7:58 pm --

Rigning wrote:Cavillers, like the people of this thread.


You don't mean that babe.
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Re: What turns you off?

Postby NotAsCrazyAsIThought » Sat Mar 26, 2016 8:20 pm

Bitchy girls , stinking girls , fatty girls.
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Re: What turns you off?

Postby friscodyke » Sat Mar 26, 2016 10:04 pm

I always have tiny turn offs but then I meet someone who I really like and I completely forget.
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