Almost 15, living with BPD

Isme wrote:Sadgurl, I will. Sorry. It just bugs me when vulnerable people are exposed to comments like that.

Don't know Daniel to be honest, and I don't know what the other thread is.

But I do want YoungAndHopeless to know there are people who understand, and who will support her... and that her nightmare is not neccessarily endless.

(((hugs)))

Then allow me to introduce myself

The mods here obviously think that I am dangerous to a degree. When she say "dont fuel daniel" she means dont mess around with me because when I start a war I NEVER back down.

Sadgurls just afraid that you will start a long and tiring war but at the moment Im not up for it.

Daniel

YoungAndHopeless wrote:

Daniel wrote:Young AND hopeless. Hell of a combination.

Daniel

F*ck you. I'm not gonna take shiit like that from someone I don't even know and that doesn't know me AT ALL. I'm just not even gonna come on here anymore. Everywhere I go there's always someone judging me and it's sad I can't even go online and have peace and understanding.

Dont do that. There are lots of people here to help you and understand you. If you leave I will most likely get hell for it.

Daniel

At your age it is unusual to recieve a PD diagnosis. 18 is usually the minimum. Just as Isme noted the personality changes so much in that time when your young.

Nonetheless, any help is good.

So my advice to you is go with it. Do the therapy, talk about stuff and get it all out. The sooner that happens the higher the chance of progress. Finding a good support network is also very benificial. Such as a support forum such as this....minus the unsupportive comments. Or a BPD or sex abuse spicific forum.

As for the kid's "running" from you. I imagine they are 14 aswell. Seeing as they may not be dealing with such issues and havent taken an interest they are most likely ignorant of it all. Unempathetic as they dont understand.

Take care

Daniel wrote:

Sadgurls just afraid that you will start a long and tiring war but at the moment Im not up for it.

Daniel

No that's not it, it's the rule of psychforums to not have arguments on the thread, so i'm trying to prevent that.

I thought we should be accepting toward one another.

Yes it is great to have positive things posted.

But there is no reason to disrespect each other.

And yes sometimes things posted can sound caustic and we all think differently.

But in the end we all have good days, bad days and Issues.

Mods try to be neutral, yet supportive, just doing their job.

I know I am new, but really calmness, and privacy prevail on this forum. Thank Goodness!

JMHO

your only 14 and diagnosed with borderline? that is very young. i'm 18 and was diagnosed at 17 with borderline and narcissism, see other thinger. your personality isn't fully developed young child. maybe you are borderline maybe your are not i don't know you so i can't judge you. but i am studying psych and know that personality isn't fully developed until early 20's so even i was young to be diagnosed with such a disorder.
that's my 2 cents plus tip.

EchoNayana wrote:your only 14 and diagnosed with borderline? that is very young. i'm 18 and was diagnosed at 17 with borderline and narcissism, see other thinger. your personality isn't fully developed young child. maybe you are borderline maybe your are not i don't know you so i can't judge you. but i am studying psych and know that personality isn't fully developed until early 20's so even i was young to be diagnosed with such a disorder.
that's my 2 cents plus tip.

Shes not BPD we have decided. We have decided that she is a fraud.

Daniel

Daniel wrote:

EchoNayana wrote:your only 14 and diagnosed with borderline? that is very young. i'm 18 and was diagnosed at 17 with borderline and narcissism, see other thinger. your personality isn't fully developed young child. maybe you are borderline maybe your are not i don't know you so i can't judge you. but i am studying psych and know that personality isn't fully developed until early 20's so even i was young to be diagnosed with such a disorder.
that's my 2 cents plus tip.

Shes not BPD we have decided. We have decided that she is a fraud.

Daniel

You're so funny, Daniel! I just love you and your comments!

If no one has anything to say, and believes this person not to be true just leave the thread alone without comments saying someone is fake etc... incase it causes problems....

If you believe a memeber may be a troll contact the admin or a mod.

I was just saying she seemed awfully young to be diagnosed as such. just my opinion tho.