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I would imagine so. I'd hate to have it myself.

The thing with your hubby dosnt sound right at all. You shouldnt have to be anyone else to be tolerated. But i can understand the feeling of needing to.

Google Wisemind support group. Its a BPD spicific support group with diagnosed and treated BPD. And alot have reached different level's of "recovery"vand all have graduated fro DBT. This is an actual group people who by choice attend on a weekly basis for coffee or whatever to help and support one another or vent.
Unfortunatly the group is in ontario but there are Emails and information and there may be a simmuler group near you.

http://www.inform.hamilton.ca/details.a ... &RSN=73445

This would also be a good resource.

http://www.bpdcentral.com/