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Postby angelinbluejeans » Mon Aug 24, 2015 3:52 pm

I was reading one of her articles..
and I really want to know: is this article accurate?
IF LOOKS COULD KILL
Anatomy of a Borderline
By Shari Schreiber, M.A.
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Re: Do You Agree?

Postby Danieleaf » Mon Aug 24, 2015 7:37 pm

Without getting into a long-winded critique of the validity of this article, I will simply say that it appears to have been painted with extremely broad strokes...throwing a paint bucket at the target actually. You're going to hit on at least something that resonates, and frankly I found it to read very similarly to the plethora of other online articles that demonize pwBPD more than describing the complexities of the various ways in which the disorder can manifest in different people. It reads more like another good vs. evil dynamic intended to help the "victims" of a BPD relationship.

Here are a few things about Shari Schreiber I found noteworthy:

* She "treats" patients exclusively over the phone.
* She does not work as a state-licensed clinician.
* Her insight into BPD comes from "working" with the partners and relatives of pwBPD.

angelinbluejeans, you asked if this article is "accurate". I will only make this point: With knowing that BPD is a highly complex scenario, sharing possible comorbidity with other PDs as well as mood disorders, can anything you're able to read in less than 10 minutes be "accurate"? :?
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Re: Do You Agree?

Postby angelinbluejeans » Tue Aug 25, 2015 1:20 am

Danieleaf wrote:Without getting into a long-winded critique of the validity of this article, I will simply say that it appears to have been painted with extremely broad strokes...throwing a paint bucket at the target actually...

I appreciated your response. And I do feel that she vilifies some individuals and wrongly so. Thanks again for your well thought out response...
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Re: Do You Agree?

Postby Ayfara » Tue Aug 25, 2015 1:38 am

Uh... Did anyone else catch a strong whiff of internalised misogyny coming from this woman? She doesn't write like a balanced, objective person, to me.
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Re: Do You Agree?

Postby 1PolarBear » Tue Aug 25, 2015 5:54 am

The truth about Shari Schreiber

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Re: Do You Agree?

Postby green m+m » Fri Aug 28, 2015 12:07 am

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She's a man, baby.
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Re: Do You Agree?

Postby jaus tail » Fri Aug 28, 2015 10:19 am

i guess the one on the left is adolf hitler. who's the one on the right?
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Re: Do You Agree?

Postby madjoe » Fri Aug 28, 2015 1:23 pm

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Re: Do You Agree?

Postby 1PolarBear » Fri Aug 28, 2015 2:13 pm

jaus tail wrote:i guess the one on the left is adolf hitler. who's the one on the right?

Eva Braun, yes. Although, in hindsight, which is 100%, I should have put an Orang-Utan. :lol:
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Re: Do You Agree?

Postby NimplyDinply » Wed Nov 04, 2015 10:55 am

OneRinger wrote:The truth about Shari Schreiber

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I should not have searched her on this forum. :lol: This is too good.

Shari is a nasty piece of work that encourages her clients to view all pwBPD as evil that needs to have war waged on. :roll:

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