I feel like im dating my father..

I understand what you're saying but this is NOT like that. Like I've gotten attached to guys like that multiple times and he is NOT one.

He is a very sweet and positive person. He has never said a mean word to me ever. Its just hes inconsiderate sometimes is all and its frustrating cuz sometimes he really does remind me of my father that way...well intentioned but flaky and thoughtless sv sometimes. But its never malicious.

I dunno. I'm not saying i don't have valid complaints but i do tend to overanalyze things and blow them out of proportion.

Yea, there is nothing else you can do but trust your instincts. You know the situation best.