twistednerve wrote:
BPD is, frankly, the god damn worse mental illness of all aside from schizophrenia. I mean, "very symptomatic" BPDs will have a foot on psychopathy, one in narcissism, psychosis, depression, anxiety and crazy bipolar-like mood and identity swings.
Does anyone here had real success with DBT? If so, which symptoms and behaviors did it EFFECTIVELY treat? Please exclude reports of mere "awareness of the symptom", or repression of behavior. I want treatment effectiviness: which means, you don't feel like doing X and Y and you feel overall better.
It seems like Marsha LInehan is pushing a product claiming to treat way more than it can. And is gathering a cult following by other mental health professionals, who are passing on this new "phylosophy" as science and medical treatment.
If even psychoanalysis, which is a load of crap, still exists and profits, let alone the damage DBT will do to our pockets and lives if left unchecked.
But please, prove me incorrect if you can.
I'm really not one for cults or religion and I like DBT as treatment for BPD. I'm more of a skeptic than anything and was raised agnostic so I don't really take to cult mentalities. However, DBT is not a mentality- it's a set of stills and techniques. CBT is not as effective for PwBPD because it doesn't take into account the concept of dialectics. From what I've heard, it can feel really invalidating. DBT is predicated on the idea that you can feel one way, rationally know another way, and act with both of those things in mind. DBT has been shown to decrease self-harm and suicidal behaviors in studies. Mindfulness, the technique DBT uses, has been shown to change the brain physiologically. It's pretty cool actually. Outside of that, you're right. Not a lot is known. However, funding for studies on BPD is SIGNIFICANTLY lower than for Bipolar, Schizophrenia, and basically every other mental illness. The research on BPD and treatment is generally insufficient on all fronts.
The way you describe BPD is....interesting. I've met people with bipolar who have it far worse than I do. But I don't have to remind you once again that BPD is a spectrum disorder. My love life is hell on earth and I don't know how to maintain romantic relationships or close emotional friendships and when my relationships end I lose all emotional stability and will to live, but my day to day is better than that of a really depressed person. We can't make these kinds of generalizations. For SOME people, BPD is one of the most painful experiences of mental illness, but not for everyone. Just a side note.
It's hard to determine "success" with DBT. Therapy is something that requires continuous work and it's hard to see how you change over time. However, DBT got me through some of the worst months of my life. I was suicidal and constantly upset and depressed and the distress tolerance methods really helped me through that. I also had some success using the interpersonal effectiveness skills. I was able to have a productive conversation with a significant other that acknowledged his feelings and didn't blame him for mine. I'm also more capable of tolerating and recognizing emotions. I didn't know what I was feeling before. I just knew it was bad. Now I'm able to put names to my feelings and validate them. I can see how they might be ineffective but I can also identify why I might be feeling them. I've also learned how to just sit with these emotions and let them subside on their own. In DBT it's called "surfing an emotional wave". I could go on and on. DBT isn't like a cult. It's like a class. I'm learning things that tend to come naturally to other people but that I have always struggled with.
DBT is also focused on building a life for yourself, which is really important. No other therapy has really focused so much on goals and measures of progress for improving my life the way that DBT has- which is a similarity is has with CBT. I was never in CBT. I was in talk therapy and absolutely hated it. I never saw any improvement. I think the real benefit of DBT is that I'm being active with my mental health. I'm learning things and using those tools every day. I'm not just talking to some lady about how my mom ignored me as a child or knew I was purging and restricting throughout high school and didn't get me help because she wanted me to be thinner. Those conversations just upset me and made things worse. I never wanted to "heal my inner child". I wanted things to feel better. And that's what DBT focuses on.
I won't try to prove you wrong. Different strokes for different folks. If you think DBT is BS you can think that. But I think it's a really useful tool to improve your life if you have BPD. It isn't a cure-all. I'm certain some people don't take to it. It's also worth mentioning that the practitioner also matters as does the practice. I'm in a really comprehensive DBT program. I spend over 2 hours in therapy every week with class and an individual session with a DBT therapist. I also get phone coaching which means I can call my therapist's cell phone if I have an issue and she will talk me through whatever is happening and get me to use skills. That pretty much saved my life in May. The practice I go to is really fancy and expensive. I know not everyone gets that experience (which is why I attend every session on time and am pretty obsessed with my treatment) so YMMV based on what kind of DBT you have access to and your therapist.
-- Tue Nov 18, 2014 1:32 pm --
twistednerve wrote:
I think DBT and CBT are no more than variants of exercises present in many religions from Asia, as well. However, it is being sold as effective medical treatment for psychiatric illnesses in 2014.
Before you make posts like this, I think you actually need to educate yourself on DBT, TN. Mindfulness is a core philosophy and technique of DBT, but it isn't its entirety. There are 4 main parts: mindfulness, emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal effectiveness.