why did we get such life...

jaus tail wrote:i was on fb and saw through pics of my friends, they're all content with their lives. how can they be content...why did i get such life. i know there are folks with worse lives but it just overall sucks...

the urge to be like a baby, friends dont believe in bpd, they think mental illness are crap, i dont speak with them anymore. i really feel so lonely now and that life is unfair...

whats the point of this intelligence if its of no use..

i hate people who preach
live for others,
it is nice that you live for others

well screw you, i lived for others, so much that my mind had become that if someone slapped my head, i would say thank you.

this is why perhaps i like fountainhead, live for yourself, be loyal to yourself

but people say, 'adjust' 'live for others' yeah well, fck you who says, 'live for others'

I completely agree. No need to be a conformist. To hell with that. People's opinions are no more valid than anyone else's.

I have been to a research institute where they had hand outs on this, it's not about living for others but developing empathy, identity, self acceptance and then a desire to contribute to society for self worth. It's not about doing it for the government it's about yourself, it's from years of research that working increases happiness for multiple reasons.

Yes for bpd this is hard hence why it's still considered a pd not just a thought or mood disorder. I have learnt everything can be managed but aspd. Even npd can if they can admit to having a problem which usually they don't.

However for bpd I think environmental mastery is of more importance so avoiding triggers and learning intetpersonal skills such confronting someone close to you about how they make you feel without being judgmental.