HOW to avoid typical cluster B type relationships

i feel a little sad that the connection's gone although it was a mildly abusive one.

i know there was somethin off with him or else i wouldn't feel so connected and close to him. if someone is completely normal i dont attach, it's strange. it takes years and years for me to get there but if they're slightly disordered which i think this man is, he has some serious underlying issues, i dont think hes' a full on pd. sometimes i do but not often....

-- Wed Jul 30, 2014 2:10 pm --

how do you let go?

i have essentially, i know devaluing the entire relationship is the quick and easy way but i wish i could just talk to him...

so. dumb.