Hi, I'm new here and just saying hello to all!

Hi, I am new here, but I am not new to Borderline. I was diagnosed approx 4 years ago officially, but have been living with it as long as I can remember. My life has been a chaotic battle, badly affecting my family and relationships, for years. I didn't have any interest in my diagnosis as Borderline are first. It's only recently that I have began reading about it, and realised that it is me, totally.
Now I know I need specific support (I have had lots of other problems, eating disorders, self harm, addiction...I've had help for those individually, but nothing as generic as this site, which I've come to realise is what I need now)
I think that, as I have just finished a 3 year intensive therapy course for eating disorders and am healthier than I have been in a long time, my meds are stable (I take lots. I am very over medicated, another one of my issues), I'm living alone and am calmer than before, I now realise that I need to deal with being Borderline, or learning better ways to live with it.
I'd love to support others too, and fee, part of a community where I'm not alone in this.
Abandonment is a big problem for me, yet I isolate myself.
I have used online support forums before, but they were tailored to a specific problem.

I just want to learn to live freely and happily, and to help where I can to help others to do the same.

Chloe