Feeling annoyed with everyone always...can anyone relate??

i am very annoyed with people beginning yesterday morning, and still right now, when i got up, but i am including my own self in that. i also had written the other day,how pleased i was to have come on here, but now i am just annoyed with everyone on here! ha! time to find something else, and see if that works, though i doubt it. i also started looking through a dbt book(again), got annoyed with the author, and am giving up on that. the only thing i want to do, is something that is just not acceptable to the world of therapists, social workers, and such, but that is what i want to do! i am so tired of trying so hard. i am beyond help..


please, no one take this personally, it's just my bitchiness. in fact, i was called a bitch yesterday, when i was not being one, but today, i am one, and deserve to be called one

I've have been really irritable and kinda "snapping" (attitude over nothing) over being so much as talked to for about a week.

Just in a really. #######5. mood.

Oh, and ###$ you too.

I have been experiencing this quite a bit lately. It is unfortunately going beyond mere annoyance and irritation. I feel hostile towards people for absolutely nothing - sneezing, looking at me, asking me questions. Other things irritate me to the point where the levels get almost unbearable and I need to find a quiet place to vent. People who walk too slowly (even if they're not in my way or anywhere near me), people who wear clothing I dislike, people who hold the door for me, people who don't hold the door for me...the list is endless. I have always felt above average levels of irritation with people, but the past few months it's just out of control. I took a walk on my lunch break yesterday and between people making eye contact with me and walking too close to me I lost it by the time I got back in the building. I was shaking when I got on the elevator and when some guy stepped out onto his floor and bid me a good day I snapped and punched the wall as soon as the door shut. His voice annoyed me. I went and cried in the bathroom after that. Later in the day I felt tired, but couldn't muster up the effort to feel annoyed with people for a while.

Is this normal?

ratkid wrote:I have been experiencing this quite a bit lately. It is unfortunately going beyond mere annoyance and irritation. I feel hostile towards people for absolutely nothing - sneezing, looking at me, asking me questions. Other things irritate me to the point where the levels get almost unbearable and I need to find a quiet place to vent. People who walk too slowly (even if they're not in my way or anywhere near me), people who wear clothing I dislike, people who hold the door for me, people who don't hold the door for me...the list is endless. I have always felt above average levels of irritation with people, but the past few months it's just out of control. I took a walk on my lunch break yesterday and between people making eye contact with me and walking too close to me I lost it by the time I got back in the building. I was shaking when I got on the elevator and when some guy stepped out onto his floor and bid me a good day I snapped and punched the wall as soon as the door shut. His voice annoyed me. I went and cried in the bathroom after that. Later in the day I felt tired, but couldn't muster up the effort to feel annoyed with people for a while.

Is this normal?

reading this made me laugh a little, but I don't mean that in a dismissive way...I totally relate because I have had many of those feelings myself and I know how hard it can be to just cope with everyday life when you feel this way. have you ever been on any medication? not usually the first thing I'd suggest by any means but excessive irritability can be caused by low serotonin, and I've noticed since going on an antidepressant my mood has been a lot better when it comes to this stuff. if you have tried that and it doesn't work for you, meditation is the next thing I'd suggest.

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Hello I'm noo here and yes I get infuriated with people in general on a bad day, I just seem to see an exaggerated over done version of someone and find myself staring at them with angry thoughts being sent their way to put them down a peg or three- laughing too loud?- I see them as thinking too much of themselves and I want to beat them up or put them down! I feel bitter, guilty and evil after that. Lately I try to use the CBT skills to catch myself from falling in to that rumination and try to change the emotion around by focusing on something opposite.....it happens a lot though and feels rotten....

On my bad days (and these are numerous) I despise absolutely every single person on Earth. If someone showed me a button and told me that by pressing it I could wipe out the human race in an instant, I wouldn't have to think twice.

I am an alien on this planet, and I'm sick of it.

i always snap at people especially in my family when they do something which annoys me.

Hi this is an old post so don't know if anyone reads these anymore- anyway i was searching for this topic tonight- bc i am so very annoyed at everyone and wondered if it was my BPD. auugh i just want to scream, i feel bad, but i dislike everyone- close friends - everyone. there's a reason to resent each person in my life and i can't control these feelings . i am a Christian and am supposed to love everyone but i don't i almost hate them all and i want to get away from these bad feelings. it was at least interesting to see another person with BPD who feels this

YES. Pretty much ALL THE TIME. I hate everyone haha
People annoy and irritate the SH*T out of me. For the tiniest things. And much of the time I can't hide how irritated I am.
I always wonder how other people tolerate other people and aren't so irritated like I am, which also leads me to believe I'm just a bitch.
It's worse on some days than others. Today it's at max level. I AM SO ANGRY AT EVERYONE. I'm pretty much expecting everyone to be against me today and drive me mad. I have a doctors appointment soon and I'm thinking about it and mentally rehearsing the argument in my head and I haven't even met her before. She might be great, but I bet she won't be.
Although sometimes I'll meet someone and think they're like an angel. And then be sad that I'll never get to see them again.
Glad so many people relate.

-- Mon Jan 22, 2018 3:52 pm --

Oh, just realised this is 4 years old ... Lol

joeyandvladdy wrote:i am very annoyed with people beginning yesterday morning, and still right now, when i got up, but i am including my own self in that. i also had written the other day,how pleased i was to have come on here, but now i am just annoyed with everyone on here! ha! time to find something else, and see if that works, though i doubt it. i also started looking through a dbt book(again), got annoyed with the author, and am giving up on that. the only thing i want to do, is something that is just not acceptable to the world of therapists, social workers, and such, but that is what i want to do! i am so tired of trying so hard. i am beyond help..


please, no one take this personally, it's just my bitchiness. in fact, i was called a bitch yesterday, when i was not being one, but today, i am one, and deserve to be called one

well men love bitches I am a male bitch too sometimes, eyebrow raising, eyes rolling up and all all jokes aside, I know, sometimes you just want to punch everyone on their nose till you see them bleeding. Just take it easy and relax I don't quite understand what you mean by wanting the unacceptable.