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Who are you living for?

Postby NeedyPants » Thu Oct 03, 2013 12:59 pm

Do you live for yourself or someone else?

How do you think it's SUPPOSED to be (if we want to get the most out of life)?
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Re: Who are you living for?

Postby katana » Thu Oct 03, 2013 1:21 pm

I live for me.
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Re: Who are you living for?

Postby Cate68 » Thu Oct 03, 2013 1:30 pm

my family and myself both
One of the greatest blasphemies is the taking of one's freedom of thought, dictating matters of the heart and the theft of another's personal peace.

Everyday I live is an act of rebellion.

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Re: Who are you living for?

Postby Cheze2 » Thu Oct 03, 2013 1:36 pm

I think we're SUPPOSED to live for ourselves. I think I currently live for others. No one really in particular, but just so that I don't hurt others. I lost my sister to cancer and had to watch my parents, her friends, and others who knew her suffer through one child's death. I don't want to have to do that to other people in my life.

Though I often wonder how many, if anyone would show up to my funeral if I were to pass away.
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Re: Who are you living for?

Postby PamHelf » Thu Oct 03, 2013 1:50 pm

No one.

Actually that's not quite right. My parents as they would be distraught if I killed myself.

I'm not living for myself. I'm just existing.
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Re: Who are you living for?

Postby cboxpalace » Thu Oct 03, 2013 5:07 pm

NeedyPants wrote:Do you live for yourself or someone else?


My kids and that's it!

How do you think it's SUPPOSED to be (if we want to get the most out of life)?


Not really sure other than the opposite of what I feel now.
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Re: Who are you living for?

Postby Casper » Thu Oct 03, 2013 5:30 pm

*tw*
My parents. I don't have a wife or kids, and I decided back in my teens (and to date, haven't changed my mind) that my big goal is to outlive my parents. I don't want them to have to bury their only child. Once they're gone, I take care of their estate and I'm done.
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Re: Who are you living for?

Postby Rinkaku » Thu Oct 03, 2013 6:20 pm

I'm just existing too, I think we're supposed to live for ourselves, but I'm trying to find something to live for.
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Re: Who are you living for?

Postby monkey66 » Thu Oct 03, 2013 6:34 pm

I am living so I can really know who I am. If I am happy for one year out of my life, it will
be worth it. I want to be happy and to know me
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"We have to face the pain we have been running from. In fact, we need to learn
how to rest in it and let its searing power transform us. "
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Re: Who are you living for?

Postby exquisitecorpse » Thu Oct 03, 2013 6:43 pm

I live for myself mainly, but I also have a child. Having a child has forced me to grow up some, and I have to consider his welfare in all my choices. It sucks, I'm immature, but at the end of the day, I force myself to do the right thing. HATE being an ADULT.
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