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Am I bitch or..

Postby msangeedepp » Mon Apr 29, 2013 5:07 pm

Do this $#%^ piss you off?


Guys from POF texting me..Im like eh fine.no biggie..I really dont have it in me right now to go on dates but eh whatever

But I constantly am getting this...


Hey send me some full body shots..


FULLY BODY SHOTS? WTF...

I know I have some people with ED in here so Im sure Im not the only one..


After they say that..all communication is done as far as Im concerned

Its like if you pass the full body pic test THEN ill talk to you..

HELLLO all ready had an asshole, dont want another..


I should say yup...and when I have authenticated that your dick meets my requirements, then you can have my pic..LOLS

Im naughty
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Re: Am I bitch or..

Postby fiftysix » Mon Apr 29, 2013 5:24 pm

I don't know what the hell you are talking about but i like your attitude. No you are not a bitch. You are looking after yourself. Keep it up.
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Re: Am I bitch or..

Postby msangeedepp » Mon Apr 29, 2013 5:26 pm

dudes asking to see my body before they even talk to me..That $#%^ makes me want to get into trouble with the law
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Re: Am I bitch or..

Postby Empathy201 » Tue Apr 30, 2013 12:02 am

Clearly what they are doing is offending you. It's crossing a boundary you have and, if I wonder how I would feel in that position, I would feel a variety things - like being judged and minimized to something physical which would be very invalidating to me as "a person".

It's totally understandable that you would dislike people doing that. I would as well. I feel that same way if someone tries to get me to take them home right after meeting me (especially when they haven't asked anything about me). There's more to me than that and I want more than that. If that's all they want, that's their prerogative and they can look elsewhere.

PoF is often used as a "hook up" meat market by single (and even non-single) people so it's not really a shock that you're experiencing that. It sounds like you're handling it very well though. I would instantly cross people like that off my list. They're not worthy of my time.

Try to avoid jail tho! :P
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Re: Am I bitch or..

Postby msangeedepp » Tue Apr 30, 2013 12:10 am

Im just kidding about jail..


Yah the more I think about it, I have never been on a date through POF..


good point
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Re: Am I bitch or..

Postby Casper » Tue Apr 30, 2013 4:05 pm

No, it's not you. I wouldn't have put up with that, either. I guess it's all in what you're looking for, though. Frankly, I'm impressed that you didn't offer to meet up with him just so you could break his nose. (And no, don't go getting any ideas...)

For what it's worth, there's a thread going around in the admin section right now about online dating with some equally warped stories. Even admins and mods have bad luck when it comes to online dating, and as I've read, it gets worse when you actually meet a date!
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Re: Am I bitch or..

Postby msangeedepp » Tue Apr 30, 2013 4:15 pm

WAHAHAHHAHAHHAA I wont I promise..


See heres the thing though Johnny, I met my ex through online dating...Yah I know I should have read the disclaimer when that happened lols..but n e ways thats one thing he didnt do..But to be fair..it was a lesser known site..


Seriously though..I ran across a video about a song someone wrote from dealing with a bunch of dillholes..


Entitles..IM GONNA WHIP SOMEBODY ASS..

Yup written bout me
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Re: Am I bitch or..

Postby Hevski » Fri May 03, 2013 1:05 pm

It wasn't a site called Badoo was it? :D
Udx BPD.. INFP (lol).. Emotional wreck..
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