This is what my so called friend wrote me...

I appreciate ur insight..

Sometimes people just have to say the right things to piss you off enough where the care button pushes off..I dont really give a flying ###$ about him anymore

I'm glad you feel that way now, Angee. If he's going to be that condescending and judgmental, he's not worth having as a friend. We need friends who like us, not ones who tell us all of our faults and then amplify them; we can do that just fine on our own, thank you very much!

For his birthday, give him a hammer, some nails and a pair of wood boards. That way, when he feels like saving the world again, he can go ahead and nail himself right on up.

And Wineaux's right; it's great to see you back! I missed you!

thanks johnny missed you too

[quote="JohnnyBlaze"]I'm glad you feel that way now, Angee. If he's going to be that condescending and judgmental, he's not worth having as a friend. We need friends who like us, not ones who tell us all of our faults and then amplify them; we can do that just fine on our own, thank you very much

For his birthday, give him a hammer, some nails and a pair of wood boards. That way, when he feels like saving the world again, he can go ahead and nail himself right on up.


Lol!! To the OP..I have a "friend" like this. Just say thanks for your input but no thanks..and walk away..like it sounds like you have.

Us here on the forum understand and are the people who really care

Thanks feather..Love ya

On a side note..I had to put myself in check..

Was reflecting on this..I started to think extremely guilty about this..Like maybe Im the big bitch he claims me to be. I can see where I lashed out a little bit..I mean thats what we BPDs do

but..Upon further relection..

I should have seen this a long time ago..From the day I knew him, he was out to control me. I remember one night we all went to hang out with a mutual friend and he got angry because they started to drink and I just wanted to sit and chill. He went angerily out to his car and called me all the way home about that was Satans environment and I had a drinking problem so I needed to go home with him.

He has always attempted to force what he thought my life should be..I mean his parents still pay his bills and do his laundry at 34! Not that Im making a judgment about that but dont go mucking in mine. I have never been good enough for him. And you know what I dont get? He has a friend who exhibits the same behaviors and is even afraid to approach him so how am I different? Oh yah thats right..he had a crush on me and I turned him down.

I am always for someone having intelligent conversation with me about my behaviors..Heck I wouldnt be on this forum if I didnt but no one wants to be taken down to and sermonized.

Am I that far off the mark?