Do you ever want to save the men/women you date from you?

Absolutely I do. I tell them of the BPD and then caution them to protect themselves emotionally from me. I also suggest they tell me when I start to switch so maybe it can be avoided and we can have an adult conversation.

they say they want the real me but the way they react to the dream ses diferend
i sometimes wander if ppl can take the real me
doesn't matter ther's only an objective
and several way to get it done