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HPD characteristics I found abusive and my reasoning

Permanent Linkby ridingthewtfbus on Tue Jun 24, 2014 7:20 pm

[*] Exhibitionist behavior
-------Playing with her boobs in front of other men for attention

[*] Blaming personal failures or disappointments on others
-------Even to this day, rather than accept any responsibility for her actions, she would rather blame the father of her children for her failed relationship and pretend he is a monster (identical to what she's done to every other man she's ever been in a long-term relationship with)

[*] Making rash decisions
-------3 weeks after saying she hated her brain and felt like she was going crazy, she suddenly decided to blame me for all her unhappiness, took my kids from our house, moved to another county, filed for divorce, smeared me to the moon in court, and vilified me with everyone she knows

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Moving Forward

Permanent Linkby ridingthewtfbus on Tue Jun 17, 2014 6:18 pm

It's hard to believe it was right around this time several years ago when things really started to get shaky... God I loved her so much. I would have done anything for her. I married her because she was unlike any woman I had ever met. Smart, funny, outgoing, attractive, very extroverted but in a "I'm blossoming because of you" kinda way. I felt on top of the world. I had married the woman of my dreams. She seemed to have limitless potential. Nothing could have ever come between us. Our children were perfect. I had the perfect job, perfect wife, perfect kids, perfect family, perfect house, the perfect life. I had no idea I had actually married a mirage.... An illusion. My world was turned upside down. My kids. OMG my poor kids! Why?! Why would she do this? What did I ever do to deserve this? Why does she hate me all of a sudden? Did she ever love me? Am I literally just a paycheck? She just wanted to have kids and lock me in baby jail? How embarrassing! Why can't I have what everybody else has? What kind of damage will this do to my children? Why won't her entire family even speak with me now? She's crazy! There has to be something wrong with her! See! See! The Psych reports on both of us even spells it out!!!! I've literally been vilified and no one will listen to me! And now the FOC has sided with her?!?! Why God Why?!?! This is insane!!!!

....I will never forget how painful that experience was. I've come a long way since then. Time certainly does heal all wounds. My life today is bearable again. I worry about my kids, but I know they know their daddy loves them. And regardless of how little they get to see me, I will always do everything in my power to be strong for them, provide for them, and let them know how much they mean to me. She can try to pretend I don't exist if she wants. She can continue alienating me with everyone she knows if she wants. No matter what though, my kids will know daddy loves them.

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Coney you rock!

Permanent Linkby ridingthewtfbus on Wed Feb 19, 2014 4:29 pm

""Sufficient personalities outgrow the stage of development where your identity is too sensitive. Histrionics do not, and in the likeness of OCD, the histrionic cannot settle on an identity because of doubt that is experienced as old identities become functionally obsolete, so the histrionic discards the identity and starts anew, only to repeat this cycle.

After some explaining, my boyfriend was very respectful of the conditions I said this put on our relationship. I told him clear communication is key, because if I feel him avoiding me, I will feel like he doesn't want me and I will leave before I am left."""

Coney you seem wise beyond your years. I only wish my ex-wife could accept the reality that this disorder caused her to believe something that wasn't true, and destroyed our marriage. I don't want her back, but I wish she would stop treating me like her worst enemy. I loved her, I love my kids, and I miss them dearly when I don't have them.

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