This is the first time I have ever reached out, a little scared. My mother is 91 yeas old, she lives on her own (step-dad died 2 years ago). She has had multiple ladies work for her, but each time they either leave or she wants them out of their home (we started to place bets on how long the ladies will last). She is very mean to them, always looking over their shoulder when they are cooking and telling them how to do everything, to the point that the ladies have to ask before they do anything. She has always been very manipulating, controlling and lies a lot. She used to throw herself on the floor and pretend she had fainted when things where not going her way. Don't want to bore you with my childhood, it was not fun. Anyways, she just got a new lady the other day that is staying with her, the lady told me that my mom had climbed on a chair or stool to get something and she had not listen to her to get down. I told the lady that my mom was that way, you could not tell her what to do and she would get mad very easy, the lady told my mom what I said. The other day my mom called me and told me "Thanks for a wonderful recommendation", she told me when she gets in peoples business is not to harm them but to do good and that I should not of told the lady anything (she's probably right, but I was trying to warn the lady). I told her I was only telling the lady the truth after the lady made a remark about her, she when on but I hang up because I really hate my mom specially because she treats people like $#%^ ( and lots of history). The other day my sister-in-law when to visit and said the new lady was teary eye and sad. I blocked my moms phone from my cell because I don't want to deal with her anymore, is it bad that I don't ever want to talk to her again?