I did a depression course and I've sorta stood back and observed what I like and don't like in the other participants. Usually I don't allow myself to be so discerning. But I'm sick of taking such a pollyanna perspective of people and then finding myself bitterly disappointed when they act in the way that have indicated they could act, but I have ignored, preferring only to see the very best in them.

The group will continue meeting each Wednesday for coffee, and I'll be a part of that but I am having this one woman to my house for coffee at some other time. She actually invited herself over - and she is the only person I wanted to have over - so how cool is that? LOL.

Slow and steady... but I look forward to getting to know her better and where she may or may not fit in my life