Mass murder is not always an act of desperation or weakness. Sometimes it is a simple act of exterminating groups whom you believe are OBJECTIVELY unfit to go on living. It could be for your benefit, society's benefit, the planet's benefit... For whatever reason, you can just believe that certain people/groups should cease to exist.

If I exterminate all the bed bugs in my mattress, am I being weak? Am I "unable to face my problems?" Am I throwing a tantrum? No. I am ending the infestation of creatures whose existence itself IS THE problem according to OBJECTIVE FACT. So if you think mass murder of humans is a sign of weakness, desperation, or in any way can be compared to a "child breaking their toys", then next time you find rats in your kitchen, do the ADULT thing & LEAVE THEM THERE. Let them eat & sh!t in all your food. Let the bed bugs multiple, keep you up every night & leave bites all over your body. Let the hordes of cockroaches run free. Be responsible: Live amongst waste. See how that works for you.

Regarding something stupid someone said in the NPD forum (who would've thought?).

No. Abusive, vengeful bitterness does not get the message across that "you are real". It gets the message across that you don't deserve to be treated well or with compassion because you are just as abusive as those who've abused you. Oblitering any incentive one may have to feel sympathy for you, guilt for how they treated you, or to treat you like a valuable human being.

There's a difference between speaking up for yourself & being a bitter asshole. Learn it. I have no respect for people (without mental disorders) who let abuse turn them into the very thing they're so against. None. Not even worth spitting on. Pathetic.

If you're abusive & don't believe abuse is wrong, I respect you. If you're abusive & can't control it, I have sympathy for you. But if you're abusive, sane, & you're against abuse, you're a filthy hypocrite & I hate you.

It's pathetic that people cannot come to terms with this simple truth: Some people (including those with PDs) CANNOT control their behavior. Even if it SEEMS like they can in public, only to turn into a "monster" the instant they're alone with you, that too can be a pattern they have no control over. I guarantee you MOST of them have no way of even detecting when they are about to change. Your. Brain. Is. A. Physical. Thing. It. Can. Malfunction. It controls your decisions, how you think, etc., & you. cannot. always. control. it. Some people try their whole lives, try all the medicine, advice & techniques that come their way, but they cannot change/control how their brain functions. Actions that SEEM controlled, SEEM methodical are being dictated by A BRAIN that the person CANNOT. CONTROL. Failure to accept this says a lot about you. Maybe you're afraid of the fact that YOU can lose control the EXACT SAME WAY because you're HUMAN & it's all about brain wiring. Self-control itself is about brain wiring.

Now that I'm on an actual computer, I have a friendly reminder for everyone here.

Empathy is: The ABILITY to IDENTIFY WITH/UNDERSTAND/SHARE another person's emotions.

Empathy is NOT:
- Tending or wanting to tend to someone else's emotional needs.
- Tending or wanting to tend to someone else's emotional needs at the expense of your own needs or desires, emotional or otherwise.
- CARING about how another person feels.
- Feeling guilty for hurting a person.

You can have empathy AND STILL:
- Care about your own feelings more than another person's/anybody else's.
- Consider another person's emotions unimportant, inappropriate, invalid or all of the above.
- Cause another person pain WITHOUT feeling guilty.
- Feel good about succeeding or capitalizing whether it be at another's expense or not.
- Be AMORAL.
- Live by a moral code that states it is:
A. Sometimes or Always right to hurt another person.
B. Sometimes or Never wrong to hurt another person.

You cannot tell if a person lacks empathy based on their behavior or how they feel when faced with another person's emotional anguish. As someone who is very empathetic myself, my ability to understand & experience the emotions that others do actually causes me to be MORE effective when manipulating a person and to do them MORE harm when deliberately hurting them. So to accuse someone of lacking empathy because they've tortured a person: That's a little backward, don't you think? The reason why I can be such a danger to someone's emotional well-being is because I understand what they're going through & how they are likely to react & feel about certain things. & That knowledge serves as tremendous power.

I don't feel guilty because there's nothing more righteous than serving one's own self. Also because I have enough social experience to know that different people feel differently about different things. If I tell most people about my bowel movements, they will be disgusted. But if I tell my boyfriend about it, he will get a hard-on. So even if I hurt someone unintentionally it's not because I did anything inherently wrong. It is because that individual had a bad reaction to that specific thing. If it's worth it, I'll try to make amends, but I am not going to feel guilty for not being a mind-reader.

Which brings me to this: Don't assume that everyone with empathy has morals, & don't assume that the ones who do have morals that resemble yours in the slightest. The lack of guilt could be directly due to the fact that what they've done is RIGHT FOR THEM. Or simply just NOT WRONG. Morals are subjective. So before you ponder why someone doesn't feel bad for a "wrongdoing" they've committed, make sure it actually IS a "wrongdoing" by THEIR book.

& My final point: No matter how much you empathize with others, you will still feel your OWN emotions STRONGER. If it comes down to a choice between making yourself feel good at another's expense & making someone else feel good at your own expensive, any self-respecting individual would choose the former.

There is more to life than other people's emotions.
There is more to life than YOUR emotions; though it's perfectly fine to consider them the most important aspect of YOUR life. After all, it's YOUR life.
Not having morals/having different morals than yours/not feeling guilty (especially about something that was not wrong FOR YOU to do) =/= lacking empathy/conscience.

So. At the bus stop near my home is a sign. On it is a picture of a man, the avenue he lives on and it says "Please be aware that this man is a pedophile."

First of all, I would have to hear that from his mouth or the mouth of a child he's interacted with if there's a chance in Hell of me believing it for a second.

Second of all, if it is true, then whoever put that sign up is a collosal bag of douche.

Publicly announcing someone's sexual preferences is immature and cruel as f**k. While you're at it, why don't you post a picture of me on a BILLBOARD saying, "This woman is a coprophile!"

In case the entire universe wanted to know, my brother (insert name, phone number, address and social security card number is, along with nude pictures from all angles) really enjoys big tits.

Done with society.