I'm getting very frustrated. I thought the therapist would finally see that N is DID whenever Jae came out in therapy. This the second therapist that has seen Jae & the look on their face was surprise & then acceptance (or so I thought). Do they believe when they meet one of N's alts and then later deny what they saw & heard??? They both said it was behavioral. Ok, but she needs to be an actress, because she is excellent! <------ Ok I'm being sarcastic here
N is switching from crying to happy and giggly within minutes. They call it bi-polar. I've been around people with bi-polar, my roommates Mom had it. We both agree that she is not, N doesn't get manic or cycle the same way. Her therapist & the other hospital says she is not bi-polar. PTSD and disassociation and other diagnosis but not bi-polar. I am very frustrated & writing this down does help me.

My daughter N is 14 with undiagnosed DID. Although I feel we are getting close. She is in a long term residential treatment center 3 hours away at this time

She has 7 alts that we know of.
Jack 16-he is angry & a runner,I am not his mom
Jodi 14-she is bulimic,I am not her mom,she is a liar but also her protector I believe
Tony 15-he is the social one,he smokes pot and likes to party,I am not his mom
Susie 8- she is the cutter and walks around with a knife she doesn't like anyone & I am not mom
Kylie 6 or 7- very playful,she likes the 'doggie' I am Mom
Jay 2 or 3-nonverbal,scared,likes to crawl in moms lap.Bites her fingers a lot
Cassie ? She is the one I called 'Air' She is nonverbal and just stares out like she's daydreaming. I don't know much about her,but N told me she thinks she's been around awhile, but she's not
really sure.

My daughter N Host-is depressed,insecure,very caring,people pleaser. She knows her alts and says it's like watching a movie or dreaming when they are out. I want to mention that she has never read anything about DID or seen any movies. But her description is a lot like what I have read about it.
I believe what braught this out more was the death of my terminally ill son in Jan 2014. She was there when he passed & it was traumatic for her. For all of us,even though we knew it would be any day.
I am her advocater,but mostly a mom who just wants to do anything she can for her daughter.