Valentine's Day Idea

There's potentially a difference between not having contempt for an abstract set of people, in general, and whether one would feel differently in an entirely different context, i.e. IRL versus OTI, and a romantic relationship with a specific person versus discussing abstract psychological issues with a set of strangers in a, more or less, clinical setting. For example, I don't hold BPD's in contempt, in general. They have an unhappy psychological condition which I doubt they choose to have because they like it for some perverse reason. Heck, I even met a girl with BPD once and she seemed very nice (not to mention hot, and maybe even, willing ) At the same, could I see myself ever knowingly getting in a relationship with one? Not something I think would be good for either one of us. I can see my "contempt" for a specific BPD building as the drama got more and more out of hand.

I think giving little chocolates/candies out is a cute idea.

As for Valentine's Day, although I don't get anything or give anything anymore I do like it. I take it as an excuse to be 'corny' and 'sappy' and somewhat overly sentimental.

A few years ago I would make little gifts or cards to female friends. It lasted a few years but now we have grown apart. Kinda sad but also it's less responsibility. Friendships take work when people are physically apart.

Well... the final result of this was good.

A lot of people gave me chocolates and candies, I even received a cute cupcake... I felt bad for the complicated gifts but happy about the little ones. I was glad that I took so many chocolates with me, I gave one to all the friends I could and to people I barely new and they accepted it happily with big smiles on their faces.

And...
I did give a chocolate to the guy that I like~! I thought I wouldn't but somehow I manage to do it... I was so nervous that I forgot the details and I wanted to leave as soon as possible just like the time I confessed to him. But it was nicer than I thought, I stopped him and look for his hand and he looked down and gave it to him, I don't remember if I told him happy valentines day or at least "Here!" or if I say anything at all... but he smiled to me and took it and I was about to go but he managed to stop me somehow, I don't know if he used words or if he only put on an expression to indicate me to follow him but I stayed there and followed him to the side of the hall and he took something out of his backpack, a little bag and he gave me something, it was a little cute heart he made himself, smaller than 2cm ~ ... I was shocked but happy, I put on a big smile and say "Thank you!" with a bit of enthusiasm and I got to see his gentle smile which I love and soon I left.

He did gave that to all his female friends though, but I thought it was sweet for him to consider me a friend as well even though we haven't speak much. Also, he did something different from everyone else, it was a funny looking heart with an odd shape but it was sooooooo cuuuute, I think he is a bit naive, I think it would have been harder for me to do what he did than what I did,... I was really happy, incredibly happy and moved. I really admire him because I think he does get nervous at times but that doesn't ever keep him from doing what he wants, he seems to be really confident about himself, I wish I was like that as well.

I think whether you are a guy or a girl it would always be hard to get with someone, and for everyone it is different.

And to all of you I hope you had a nice Valentine day, or Get-Chocolate-for-free-day, or a normal-day-with a lot of candies-chocolates-roses-restaurants commercials day or a I-thought-it-was-tomorrow day, reap-off day or however it is for you... Whatever it is I hope you had a nice day on that day, however it was~!

Lol I got an illegal amount of chocolate now... this is not going to make me any good...

Thanks for Reading!

I'm happy to hear you had such a nice valentine's day, Nooni

Bravo for reaching out to people! And what a nice way to get something like that in response.

You were really brave. I never dare to do it.
I agree, both men and women who are introvert or have problems which social relation find hard to stablish romantic relations.
I hope you´ll become his "especial" friend.