nevermind

nevermind

Why not say them here?

It's anonymous enough I think.
Unless it's incriminating or really really bad I think you'll only receive support here.

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bla84 I've done things like this before. It's really embarrassing. I think it's because I felt a strong desire to connect with someone and I couldn't do it through "real life". So I would obsess about people, "facebook stalk" girls who said barely two words to me, anyone that showed any positive feelings towards me. If you feel unable to pursue these relationships in a normal way, ie by dating, talking etc.. I guess it makes sense that you sort of try to connect with them in an awkward way, through some kind of fantasy where you aren't "out there" being "exposed". Sending emails confessing problems to someone who don't have a deep relationship with yet makes a lot of sense to me. I think it's actually good that you tried to reach out to this girl, even if it was overstepping your boundaries and you scared her off. It's a step in the right direction that you were able to do this and didn't just keep the relationship a fantasy in your head.

Are you seeing any kind of therapist? This is the kind of thing you could discuss with one.

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No they don't. Nobody can tell if you click anything, their page, their friends, their photos, etc..

Facebook exists pretty much so people can stalk others. It's a large part of the appeal and I think everyone goes into creep mode once in awhile.

You are still far from being the perfect stalker. You should call her house several times every day, make photographs of her and send them to her, follow her whenever she leaves the house, etc. Through that you can show her just how much you care about her. Installing cameras in her house and sending her the tapes should also do the trick. It will show her that you will always protect her. She will feel very safe then.

If you want to confess your dirty deeds you can go to a catholic priest. As long as you are not a young boy, he probably won't rape you. Probably.