Feelings about siblings......

I was in my younger sister's bedroom the other day and I found Magnum condoms in her room. She's 16

It made me feel very angry and depressed, but I'm wondering if part of it is just jealousy since I don't have a sex life. Thoughts?




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CrowTRobot wrote:I was in my younger sister's bedroom the other day and I found Magnum condoms in her room. She's 16

It made me feel very angry and depressed, but I'm wondering if part of it is just jealousy since I don't have a sex life. Thoughts?

I think its normal to be jealous of anybody that has something you want.

I know I was always jealous of my friends when they all lost their virginity in their mid to late teens.
I just had to wait a bit longer.
I actually get very jealous of all the STD adverts, saying people are having sex younger and younger, and more unprotected sex, and every person under 25 has had a million sexual partners etc etc.
I didn't and still don't have any of that. Its quite disapointing and would be one of the only things about my life I would change.

On the news a year or so back there was a nation wide anouncement that all women who had had a one night stand with this one bloke should get check out as he had HIV. He had something like 100-200 one night stands!!
I think that would be overkill, but would say ten sexual partners over my life time be unaccepable to hope for?

I know my ex-girlfriend has had at least 4 sexual relationships since we broke up (and one during!!). I think the only reason she was sleeping with me is because she's a massive slut. And I'm hugely jealous.

PS
Immediate thought: Where can I meet your sister?

Careful - the age of consent is 16 in some states, but its' 18 in a lot of states too.

I'm incredibly jealous of young people for all the fun and sex that they get. I ended up being the real 40 year old virgin.

I found a condom in my sisters room too a while back. But I didn't care. Mainly because I hate her, and because shes always been a whore.

I don't think my sister's having sex yet, but she's 16 and on her second bf in a row. And she has a whole group of fun, smart, slightly badass friends like I wish I had at that age. They think I'm cool I guess, which makes me wish I could go back to high school and start over from that point. Really, I think if that was possible it would be the cure for me! I'm only a few years behind schedule, maybe if I could somehow go back to being a junior in high school instead of a chronologically-should-be-a-junior in college, but with the wisdom and maturity level I have now, I could end up with the life I envy.

hanna wrote:I don't think my sister's having sex yet, but she's 16 and on her second bf in a row. And she has a whole group of fun, smart, slightly badass friends like I wish I had at that age. They think I'm cool I guess, which makes me wish I could go back to high school and start over from that point. Really, I think if that was possible it would be the cure for me! I'm only a few years behind schedule, maybe if I could somehow go back to being a junior in high school instead of a chronologically-should-be-a-junior in college, but with the wisdom and maturity level I have now, I could end up with the life I envy.

Maybe when cloning technology gets better we can do that! Lets have a clone made of ourselves and have it grown in a vat. Then we dig the brain out, feed it to the dog, and have our brain put in there. Voila! 16 again!!

CrowTRobot wrote:I was in my younger sister's bedroom the other day and I found Magnum condoms in her room. She's 16

It made me feel very angry and depressed, but I'm wondering if part of it is just jealousy since I don't have a sex life. Thoughts?




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I know how you feel. My 15 year old brother was talking on the phone once about how far he's gone with a girl. Lets just say it wasn't a high self esteem day for me...knowing that my 15 year old brother is more experienced that I am at 21.

Wait until you're the REAL 40-year-old-virgin. Now THAT was nasty. I remember how depressed I got when that movie came out. Luckily it was very funny. You REALLY have to try to find something funny in life. I know it can be hard.

Parador wrote:Wait until you're the REAL 40-year-old-virgin. Now THAT was nasty. I remember how depressed I got when that movie came out. Luckily it was very funny. You REALLY have to try to find something funny in life. I know it can be hard.

LOL That made me laugh.