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Postby Idle Brain » Thu Jan 22, 2009 11:00 pm

I can honestly say that I don't harbor any fantasies of revenge. The only person I want to hurt is myself.
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Postby Idle Brain » Thu Jan 22, 2009 11:45 pm

I'm a loser, and I have nobody to blame but myself.
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Postby Idle Brain » Thu Jan 22, 2009 11:55 pm

Well, I do fantasize about killing myself. I guess you could call that a revenge fantasy.
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Postby Ghost1991 » Fri Jan 23, 2009 12:57 am

I don't have them too often these days but when I do have one it normally involves violence...
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Postby Parador » Fri Jan 23, 2009 12:57 am

Don't get me started. I have all kinds, from the Kill Bill type to the becoming their boss type. It would be so cool to get onto the school board and find a way to take the pensions away from all the teachers who abused and humiliated me. Eat dogfood teach! Live in a cardboard box!!!
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Postby Ethera » Fri Jan 23, 2009 4:20 am

I've had revenge fantasies since i learned how to write at least. They've alwayr been really passive agressive and convoluted.
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Postby Bloody » Fri Jan 23, 2009 6:35 pm

I used to have very violent revenge fantasies when I was younger. Killing the victim slowly and I always made sure to let them look at me and realize that its me who is doing this to them. I know I wouldn't have acted on them but that didn't stop me from dreaming.

Those visions have long subsided and have been replaced with much happier fantasies. I've learned to let go of grudges.

Sunny days wouldn't be special, if it wasn't for rain.
Joy wouldn't feel so good, if it wasn't for pain.
Death gotta be easy, 'cause life is hard.
It'll leave you physically, mentally, and emotionally scarred.
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Postby hanna » Fri Jan 23, 2009 10:14 pm

I never blamed anyone else for the way I am (besides my mom but I don't fantasize about getting revenge on her). I do fantasize about getting revenge on the piece of $#%^ who hit my girlfriend with his car... :evil:
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Postby Snowbunny » Sun Jan 25, 2009 2:26 am

Yes, I've had fantasies of torturing those who've hurt me in the past. But nowadays the person I'm most likely to destroy is myself.
Tiny tears make up an ocean, tiny tears make up a sea...
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