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Postby CriminallyVulgar » Wed Jan 07, 2009 4:59 am

Yea I get that too. It's part of why I have trouble believing a compliment is sincere, it's too hard to believe that I have anything worth complimenting.
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Postby Parador » Wed Jan 07, 2009 8:20 pm

Maybe we should start a separate thread about the compliments. I'm never sure how to take them either.
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Re: Coming to terms with my life.

Postby Batsy » Sun Jun 21, 2009 12:38 am

Need4Weed wrote:... then new kids enter the mix, mostly whom I can't relate to, don't like and can't see how I could. I start to feel mentally drained and have a strong sense of boredom and anxiety, especially when the main topics center around social interactions (ex. passed parties, he said/she said, confrontations) that I'm not apart of.


I completely get this. This is exactly how I feel when forced to interact casually with people I don't know. I get extremely bored, and at the same time I hate myself for not having anything to say. Sometimes I also feel this way with friends of mine when they talk about something I can't relate to, or even when I do say things but they aren't received well. It's like.. social interaction is tiring and boring, and yet what we want most in the world is to be accepted and loved by our peers. It's evil.
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Re: Coming to terms with my life.

Postby swift. » Sun Jun 21, 2009 2:05 am

meh.
Loneliness can be conquered only by those who can bear solitude. ~Paul Tillich
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