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Postby Parador » Tue Jan 06, 2009 2:11 am

In college there was this girl that I had a crush on. And she like, propositioned me for sex. And I didn't do it.

If anyone other than you anonymous user names knew about $#%^ like that i would have my man card revoked.


Don't worry. I would have passed out or something. At the very least started shaking uncontrolably.
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Postby CriminallyVulgar » Tue Jan 06, 2009 2:59 am

I have no idea how I didn't pass out.
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Postby Bloody » Tue Jan 06, 2009 7:03 am

Yukinari wrote:I've had plenty of opportunities, but I blew them all off. I did have a chance to actually go on a date, but I didn't even put any thought into it, I just didn't go. It's this way with every girl. If I have a crush on a girl, I just remind myself to not even worry about it, there's no chance it'll happen anyway. I constantly fantasize about having the perfect girlfriend, which is probably out of my reach, but it's either all or nothing in my situation. I've even had girls online tell me that my standards are way too high, but I tell them that's how I want it to be.


I feel exactly the same way. I can count the number of opportunities I've missed(I recall them mentally frequently). Sometimes I feel my standards are too high. Sometimes I feel I'm unaware of the potential opportunity until I let it pass me by. Either way I may be doomed to live alone (or die alone :lol:)

Sunny days wouldn't be special, if it wasn't for rain.
Joy wouldn't feel so good, if it wasn't for pain.
Death gotta be easy, 'cause life is hard.
It'll leave you physically, mentally, and emotionally scarred.
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Postby CriminallyVulgar » Tue Jan 06, 2009 9:51 pm

I'm typically VERY aware of the #######4 that I'm doing as I'm doing it. Like while i'm acting like I don't even know english in my head i'm thinking "say something you idiot!"
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