BOOGER BOOGER BOOGER - I met a woman

I thought I was safe from this kind of thing happening. Sure, it has been bad for my self esteem not having any women interested in me at all. But at least I have been free of major emotional ups and downs associated with the dating and mating game. Now this. When you least expect it - BLAM!! - a bus comes along and splatters you.

I was at a concert, just like I am 100-120 times a year. Nothing ever happens. Every once in a while a nice looking woman sits next to me. Usually it's an old lady. but last night it was an atractive woman. Alone. We talked a bit. She told me how a little old lady who gets the seat I had. It's hard to find people under 50-60 who like classical music. She said she had these little old lady friends. So do I. We exchanged e-mails and phone numbers. Then we decided to go out for pizza after the concert.

This kind of thing NEVER happens to me. Ever. Some part of me thinks this is some kind of practical joke set up or something. We talked over pizza and she doesn't have any family either. It's almost like she is my exact female counterpart. She mentioned that she never had anyone to spend the holidays with and I said the same. We talked about getting together on the christmas weekend. Also New Years. We stayed at the restaurant until after midnight. I finally got on the road home at 12;30. I had to sleep on the way since I had gotten up at 5 am that day. I ended up getting home at 7 am.

I'm afraid this is really freaking me out. It could really upset my life. Change is very hard. On the other hand my life is lonely. I'm trying not to panic though. She is 3 hours away and chances are she will find someone closer to her area.

BOOGER. This is awful. I find myself withing I was dead. That would be so much easier. I'm going to call her tomorrow. Lets hope she doesn't answer.

Time to upgrade to the relationship help forum

lol, dude you're lucky. If it were me, I wouldn't even be able to converse with her. I'd be sitting next to her the whole time in the concert hoping she won't say anything while I sit there and feel guilty.

It took me a long time before I could get to the point where I could talk to women.

Anywho good luck.

Yes - I could luck out and die in my sleep tonight.

I've always thought of girls as mean. I HATED girls when I was in elementary school. All they ever did was tell on me and I got in trouble over some of the dumbest reasons. I think this is partly why I'm so messed up now.

C'mon man you need to be more positive than that!!!

That's the way avpd guys think. I just sent her a short e-mail.

Parador wrote:

C'mon man you need to be more positive than that!!!

That's the way avpd guys think. I just sent her a short e-mail.

Do not tell her about the prostitutes!

I'm excited for you. Hope it goes well. Even if she isn't your soul mate or whatever you might be able to get some sex without paying for it.

Sounds like you've hit the jackpot. Don't mess it up.