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Radovan wrote:Snowbunny wrote:I really don't know. It's hard to say yes when I have these "urges". But I don't make it a crusade to destroy stuff either...I wish I could be pure and virtuous but I think you lose that when you hit puberty.
Are you speaking of homosexual "urges"? If that's the case you need to seriously re-think your value system. How could you live with yourself if you think that something about yourself that you have no choice about is morally deplorable? This is some idea that (a part of) society forces on you, but in my opinion this has nothing to do with moral virtue.
If you were speaking of something else, forget I said anything.
Snowbunny wrote:It's true that I am still having issues with my orientation now. But if I were completely heterosexual, I'd feel the same way. I'm just not very comfortable having any sexual feelings. They strike me as very base and animalistic...no offense to those who are proudly sexually active. I sort of envy those who are asexual or voluntarily celibate.
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