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Re: Do you have a Close Friend or Best Friend?

Postby Cantkillme » Sun Feb 28, 2016 5:05 pm

In-Some-Niak wrote:Yeah, I had a best friend. Until one day, over a decade ago, when he decided (for some reason...) to make fun of me in front of everyone at his wedding.

He probably doesn't even remember, but i'll probably never forget. :)

He moved away and I barely care to keep in touch any more. He's always saying, "You gotta come visit me!" Pfft. :roll:


I had similar experiences with a close friend. (Not just once, but escalating over the years) I cut him out of my life, and I don't miss him one bit. 8)
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Re: Do you have a Close Friend or Best Friend?

Postby HopelessRomantic » Sun Feb 28, 2016 10:14 pm

Friends can be a real nightmare. You can be there for them, but it doesn't mean that they will be there for you. If they are normies, they see that you are different, so you are the one who has to accommodate to them, and not the other way round. As you are flawed, you need to change your ways, and not them.
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