Not sure if this is the best category for this.
I live in a house with two housemates. We share the housework between three of us. We don't really have rules everyone contributes their bit. One of my housemate recently started attacking me regarding the housework. For example, she instructed me to clen up a bit of loose leaf tea left on the table, that was indeed me, but I was surprised on this because she has never instructed me to do anything and her and the another housemate's rubbish were everywhere, too, and my little loose leaf tea bits didn't look big issue.
Today she got home and questioned me why didn't I take out the bin. I told her I did last week, and she told me last week the another housemate did -- which is not true but I didn't want to argue about that.
There were other similar incidents and I thought that she might be tired but I realized she sees things different than the fact is. She thinks that I'm not contributing to cleaning just a bit however the fact is I do more that the another housemate, and she thinks that the another housemate do more.
Okay, I'm not really sociable with her, and she is very sociable with the another housemate but can this be the reason? Is there any psichological state that describes this?