my first time having sex, i could not get an erection, and thats still a problem, along with the reatrded ejaculation. i realized that i could not cum from sex, that after awhile, my penis feels numb and just goes down. i didnt know what it was until i did research online, and found this forum. and now, since im not even close to getting laid, i decided not to masturbate until(been a week) sex. this has not been proven to be effective, but i figure, its worth a try. anyways, any progress with you and him?