So.....
My gf of several years has been asking lately for me to force myself on her. I don't think she'd call it a rape fantasy but she has essentially given me permission to "have my way with her". She revealed this to me and explained a basic situation which she fantasizes about: She's at work after hours working on a report but just can't get it done in time. She tells her boss this who says there's only one way she can make it up to him. He holds her up against the wall and has his way with her.
Now the first thing that pops into my mind is to role play it, similar to what she has described. She doesn't want to role play, she wants this between her and me. She also doesn't want to be tied up for this, she's looking for me to force her, not let me tie her up. There go my two ideas on how to start this adventure. Being in a decent relationship, I decide to just buck up and ask her what she's looking for: "Well, you know.... Just be forceful with me." Right, no help there. I tried asking her again and she basically said in that typical "can't you read my mind?" fashion that she didn't want to tell me what to do, just for me to do it.
This is all well and good except for the fact that I don't really fantasize about being forceful with her. We've been together long enough and I respect her enough that forcing her into anything will have to be a slight act for me, at least in the beginning. There are two major forces at work here that prevent me from being original with this. One, I'm slightly worried that I'll want to take it further than she will which makes me hold back from trying this on my own. I'm not worried about taking it too far because I'm sure we will use a safeword, I'm actually just nervous because I don't know exactly what she's ok with and is being coy on the fact. Two, she wants the "hold me down and ###$ me" experience which seems simple enough, but I'm not a big physical guy. We are height weight proportional to each other and ourselves but I'm better with words. Seduction is the name of my game, not brute force.
Now the question, what have you tried in the past to make for a good consensual force experience? Or more simply, if you're a woman with these types of fantasies, is there any particular physical act you fantasize about in this situation?
Thanks,
hystrio