can't get an erection

I'm really shy, and and I can't get an erection. I don't want to go to a doctor to speak about this, since it's a very weird topic for me. what can I do? one time I was at a strip club and had a stripper say to me, "does it always get that small?" AND SHE'S GETTING PAID!!!

I was thinking a solution is Viagra, but I'm too shy to speak about this, plus I'm almost 25, I'm supposed to be at my peak or whatever, no doctor is going to believe that a 25 year old is having these problems, they're going to think I'm just trying to get a prescription for fun.

When I was a teen, I once ordered Viagra online, but it was very expensive and at that time, there weren't nearly as many scams and they've probably gotten a lot more strict on this stuff now. Plus, I don't won't to get in trouble.

I had 1 left that I bought at that time that I found, and I took one recently and it didn't even help, I'm not sure how many mg it was.

If I do get the confidence to go to a doc. about this, would i go to a psychiatrist, or just a regular doc.?

Also even though I can't get an erection I still ejaculate, but it's really quick less than a minute, it's about 30 seconds if not less.

Viagra might help but it sounds more like your problem is caused by anxiety. Go to the "Situational Retarded Ejaculation" thread on this website. Start at the last page and work backwards. Both retarded ejaculation and (in a man your age) erectile difficulties are almost always caused by some kind of anxiety. If you are physically healthy then some of the psychological explanations and anxiety reducing drugs and techniques (such as cognitive distraction) you will read about in the R.E. thread may help.

another thing.........if your problems are being caused by anxiety, drugs called SSRI antidepressants may help you. In retarded ejaculation these types of drugs (Paxil, Prozac etc) can make the retarded ejaculation worse because a side effect of these drugs is holding back ejaculation.. But in your case the drug would help in two ways- 1) they would reduce your anxiety and shyness and 2)they would retard your orgasm just enough to make you last longer before ejaculating.

first,you want to make sure it is not physical; so you might want to see medical doc, a urologist. If there is no physical problem, which I suspect, it is psychological- some form of anxiety. In that case, you should consider consulting with a psychotherapist who would be able to help you with that. By the way, a lot of men struggle with the same issue, so don't feel ashamed or shy to get the help you need.

Sorry to hear that you have been through this but there is nothing to be shy or embarrassed about this. There can be due to various reasons, but there is nothing to be worried about as Erectile Dysfunction (inability to sustain erection) is a very common disorder which most men face in there life at some stage for one reason or the other like high blood pressure, high cholesterol, diabetes, fatigue, stress, physical injuries, smoking and alcohol consumption. The exact reason behind the problem can only be judged by a specialist and only then one should use the medicines prescribed. Levitra is a FDA approved drug and is used to cure erectile dysfunction in male. This medicine helps in treating impotency and ED disorders in men suffering from risky medical conditions like high blood pressure, high cholesterol and diabetes. This is the reason why this medicine is being preferred over other impotency medicines. So just consult a specialist, get to the root of the cause and have the medication prescribed and surely you can get over your problem.

I agree with mike, there is no need to be shy about erectile dysfunction. Your doctor might actually have it himself, there are millions of men in the world that suffer from impotence and rely on medication to treat it? Have you considered asking your doctor for samples? Levitra is good but I take cialis once or twice a week and it lasts much longer almost 2 days. I use a good site to research and find information on ED at http://www.edguider.com/ you can find allot of stuff on impotence, ways to talk to your doctor about it (even though you are shy) and discuss cialis online with others who have tried it.

Hope that helps and let me know how it went.

Wow this thread was started Dec 5, 05 and it has gotten 5 replies in almost 3 years. The last post was on Oct 31, 08. This guy has probably looooong forgotten this post, and his problem.

Hi friend
Have you try Levitra. Levitra is a prescription based herb and better than other. It’s especially for the men’s health. I think you should try this. You should use Levitra in accordance of your doctor.

Levitra is indeed good medicine. But I was online a few days still find something better.

I just recently arrived home from a long road trip and found that my order was here safe and secure, right on schedule, with a 4 pill "bonus"!! I was a bit wary of ordering from an online pharmacy, especially overseas....but I came to be extremely happy with the service and the product. My sex life is back!!! I will absolutely place any and all future orders through site.
Edited by Chucky - Link to online pharmacy