So, I recently started dating a woman who I have become very bonded to emotionally. We are really hitting it off. She’s disclosed to me that she is Bipolar and med compliant. She’s also explained to me that she has some very sensitive issues surrounding sexuality. Her mother was the victim of spousal rape on multiple occasions, and I have put together that she was also horribly victimized by the same man during her childhood. She shuts down rapidly when triggered.
I recognize, thru some reading and common sense, she suffers from PTSD, as well as a sleep disorder, possibly related to PTSD.
So, other than try to avoid the triggers, can anyone help me/give me suggestions as to how I can be supportive? At times, I do or say something, or even pick up on her body language and ask a question, and there I am triggering bad memories.
I really care for her and don’t want to blunder thru this. Other than the times when these issues are triggered, it feels special when we’re together and we have so much else in common to bond over and enjoy together.