Haematophilia: The sexual attraction towards blood.

Seems I perhaps may have a paraphilia. I've never tried it but I've always had fantasies of a beautiful vampire like female slicing my wrists and drinking my blood, and me doing the same to her. To be sliced with knifes across my body and the blood licked off my chest, that would be such a turn on.

The more I think about it, normal sex rarely does it for me, I've tried oral sex and find it boring, it does nothing. Anal sex is disgusting, I've never tried it and I never will. Normal sex is good, but I need to be with someone who's a bit wild, someone who's going to sink their teeth into my neck until I bleed, we get to drink each-others blood, but it's consensual, we both enjoy what's happening, it has to be a female, I couldn't drink a males blood because I'm not gay and it has to be with someone who I find attractive, it has to be round the breast, neck or wrist area for both of us.

I won't lie, the very thought gets me exited. How hard is it to find someone who's into this though?

It doubt it would be that hard except you'd probably have to get involved in the gothic scene.

coldhands wrote:It doubt it would be that hard except you'd probably have to get involved in the gothic scene.

I actually like goth girls, yet I' not a goth myself

Thing is not all goths are into that, and it'll be a little difficult to bring something like that up in conversation without being thought of as some weirdo.And whilst it is kinda weird, there's far worse things to be aroused by.

If you meet someone who you know for sure is 'clean' to test the waters you could prick yourself on the finger, show it to her and lick the blood of your finger, if she doesn’t give you a funny look you could say in a slightly jokey way ‘Oh it wont stop bleeding, lick it’. It might give you some indication on how she’d feel about the topic. Or rent out a vampire movie and during the blood sucking part casual ask her ‘what would think if a guy wanted to suck your blood’. The whole idea of drawing blood by slicing and biting would be very painful and leave scars unless you have REALLY sharp canine teeth. It would be best to use some sort pin to prick each other with.

Yeah, some nice suggestions there, thanks.

Having thought about it,no I wouldn't bite someone and draw blood, I have that in fantasy but in reality it's actually dangerous, human teeth can cause more serious infection then a dog's teeth. I'd bite just to inflict a little pain, I'd like that done to me also, round the neck and leave a mark, but not sink right in.

I wouldn't mind a knife being used on me, on my wrists or chest, but I wouldn't use one myself. I wouldn't want to scar someone up or scare them, that would kill the fantasy completely.

Yeah a pin would be good, or for her to wear some sort of sharp metal fingernails would be really good.

Could you instead lick and drink more tasty liquids like juices, sauces, drinks, etc. from her body? That's a big turn on for me.

I think that where it can get dangerous is if you start acting on it and develop an actual taste for blood. I mean, blood doesn't taste very good naturally, it's metallic, but I suppose you can develop an unnatural taste for it, and that would be the start of a real problem.

For example, I hate most perfumes. But, after feeling some of them on attractive women for repeated times throughout my life, I seem to be attracted to them now. I don't know if it could work for tastes too. I mean, if you have repeated pleasant experiences with a beautiful woman while swallowing her blood, would you start finding the taste of blood attractive? If yes, that would be too bad.

You would be required to cut and hurt in order to get satisfaction, while if you just think of less harmful bites and drink, say, grapefruit juice, you could enjoy it without being too destructive.

There is a huge community out there into vampirism. They actually force themselves to drink blood, sleep in coffins, etc. It isn't pretty. You could easily find them and join them nowadays, but I wouldn't pursuit that if I was you.

By the way, I'm a gynophage, I fantasize about ingesting women since I was about 3, but never went beyond fantasy and don't intend to.

See the thing is, although I've never tried it, I can't imagine licking grapefruit juice off someone's body really doing anything for me. Licking someone's blood, perhaps flavouring it with some wine, now that would taste and feel fantastic and mixing that with sex would be the ultimate feeling of power and wild animalistic pleasure. And for my blood to be drank also, well it's like you're sharing your lifeforce with another, in many ways that's greater then any sex.

I already know I'd find tasting blood attractive, but only if I find that person sexually attractive. I would cut someone, but only if they wanted me to, I wouldn't forcefully harm someone, I want them to enjoy being cut and licked like I would.

I have no interest in joining any vampire community, I do have fantasies that are somewhat gothic or vampiric, but sleeping in a coffin...nah too uncomfortable, and I couldn't just drink anybodies blood.

I would like to add some information to the discussion that hasn't been talked about yet.

It's important to understand that there are many blood borne viruses that can be transmitted by the ingestion of blood. Hepatitis C, Hepatitis B and HIV can all be transmitted by blood and other bodily fluids like semen.

Its important to think about this before engaging in the behavior.

my girlfriend wants to try it and we both find it attractive thought but actual mutilation i find scary but i want to do it aswell :S

and another way to cut open skin without teeth could be fake teeth. i know they sell plastic vampire teeth. perhaps they have sharp ones that could do it. not sure if that would be clean enough since they would be in a mouth.