Our partner

is my boyfriend a pedofile?

Paraphilias message board, open discussion, and online support group.
Forum rules
================================================

The Paraphilias Forum is now closed for new posts. It is against the Forum Rules to discuss paraphilias as the main topic of a post anywhere at PsychForums.

================================================

You are entering a forum that contains discussions of a sexual nature, some of which are explicit. The topics discussed may be offensive to some people. Please be aware of this before entering this forum.

This forum is intended to be a place where people can support each other in finding healing and healthy ways of functioning. Discussions that promote illegal activity will not be tolerated. Please note that this forum is moderated, and people who are found to be using this forum for inappropriate purposes will be banned. Psychforums works hard to ensure that this forum is law abiding. Moderators will report evidence of illegal activity to the police.

is my boyfriend a pedofile?

Postby lentile » Wed Jan 28, 2015 8:46 am

So I'M 29 my boyfriend is 33 I found out that he has pictures of nude young girls in his computer I think they're between 12-15, I found odd, I knew he like younger girls but not that young, he also watch other porn, I don't think he can arm anyone and he suffers from OCD,but who know right? what should I do?
lentile
Consumer 0
Consumer 0
 
Posts: 1
Joined: Wed Jan 28, 2015 8:40 am
Local time: Sun Jun 22, 2025 4:00 am
Blog: View Blog (0)


ADVERTISEMENT

Re: is my boyfriend a pedofile?

Postby Onyixa » Thu Jan 29, 2015 7:10 pm

Well, I think you should talk to him about it, maybe they're not that young, I know that a lot of 18 yo, or more, girls look really, really young, maybe he likes girls that look young.

Anyway, he could really like young girls but as long as he doesn't do anything with them, I think that's ok, but you still should talk to him.
Onyixa
Consumer 0
Consumer 0
 
Posts: 10
Joined: Thu Jan 29, 2015 6:00 pm
Local time: Sun Jun 22, 2025 5:00 am
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: is my boyfriend a pedofile?

Postby theclouds » Fri Jan 30, 2015 4:57 pm

lentile wrote:So I'M 29 my boyfriend is 33 I found out that he has pictures of nude young girls in his computer I think they're between 12-15, I found odd, I knew he like younger girls but not that young, he also watch other porn, I don't think he can arm anyone and he suffers from OCD,but who know right? what should I do?

The major issues you'll want to be aware of are the law and addiction. Simply being attracted to young girls is more-or-less common, somewhere between 2 and 90 percent depending on the study you look at. A person's masturbatory fantasies generally have little impact on their job, community relations, family life, education and so on. Provided he does not get arrested or become a porn addict you probably have little to worry about the fact he is a pedophile; sound like he is non-exclusive otherwise he wouldn't likely watch other porn or be hooking up with you.
theclouds
Consumer 5
Consumer 5
 
Posts: 173
Joined: Tue Jan 06, 2015 2:21 pm
Local time: Sun Jun 22, 2025 4:00 am
Blog: View Blog (0)


Return to Paraphilias Forum




  • Related articles
    Replies
    Views
    Last post

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 21 guests