Orgasmic reconditioning

Hi, guys!

Someone tried using orgasmic reconditioning to treat paraphilia ? Does it work? I tried it, but I think it doesn't work . I had one result from this treatment: my penis was hurt, because masturbation without arousal is painful for me (I can sexually arouse only on my paraphiliс fantasies. My paraphilias are autogynephilia/transvestism and masochism).

I think the idea is to start with a fantasy that arouses you, then at the moment of climax enter an image of the preffered senario. Do this until the new idea begins to be appealing.

Thanks for your quick reply, Hax.

In theory this treatment works, but in practice this therapy has minimal empirical support.
For example(I already made good investigation on this topic)
Masturbatory reconditioning with sexual deviates: An evaluative review http://www.mendeley.com/research/masturbatory-reconditioning-sexual-deviates-evaluative-review/

Masturbatory reconditioning procedures all involve having the client use masturbation to modify his sexual preferences. Four methods of masturbatory reconditioning-thematic shift, fantasy alternation, directed masturbation, and satiation-are evaluated. There are few controlled studies and no group comparison studies. Most of the literature involves uncontrolled case reports and expresses confidence in the application of these procedures. However, a careful appraisal of the evidence offers little encouragement for thematic shift or fantasy alternation, but some hope that directed masturbation and satiation may be effective. More careful, larger scale studies are required before we can say that these procedures rest on a sound empirical basis.

I have tried this treatment already and I think that to change sexual preference using this treatment is very hard or impossible. My sexologist ( I from Russia, in my country sexologists\psychiatrists never used this kind of treatment for paraphilias) doesn’t think that it will work for me, he advised me not try to change my sexual fantasies, but incorporate them in sexlife with partner. But I don’t have partner yet, and I think that to have sexual intercourse with girl will be very hard for me( I’m virgin) because I have minimal arousal from normal sexual activity. ..And now I don’t know what to do: try to change my sexual preference or accept myself (my masochism and transvestism). If sexual preference would be very easy to change than I of course would choose to change my sexual preference. But I feel that all attempts to change are vain

Been masturbating specificly for orgasm since wearing two-piece pajammas. Thus, with well over 30 years experience my opinion of this treatment is it wont achieve anything more than guilt-reduction. If you get yourself arroused with a deiviate fantasy, then orgasm with a non-deviate one, all you're doing is reducing the guilt you feel. You still became arroused enough to make it the rest of the way with whatever objectionable fantasy you have you're trying to change.

I know that for myself personally all it did was give me more paraphilias, it didnt remove the old one.
I think that if you are able to incorporate it in sex with a partner it will be okay for you.

Gross topic, too much info from too many people, stupid theory.

What did you expect from this forum? Cooking lessons?