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Please help?

Postby Familyof3 » Fri Sep 13, 2013 5:28 pm

*Trigger Warning - suicide. SI*

Alex's relationship with her significant other has all but ended and its left her completely suicidal and self destructive for days now. I don't know what to do or how to save her from herself. I'm afraid that even if she's not able to kill the body, she'll try to kill herself inside.



I can't live without her and I don't know how to save her.
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Re: Please help?

Postby theClan18 » Fri Sep 13, 2013 5:55 pm

Hi, we just are coming out of a suicide period in which we too almost did ourselves off but pulled through. The main thing for us was getting the part to talk and communicate. Is there anyone Alex can talk to about what she is feeling?

We had a friend send us this song which we really liked and its called Overcomer by Mandisa.

At least for us, what we had to realize is that we couldn't save her. She had to want to live and she needed to see she has a future worth living for. We hope Alex comes around and sees she is worth it and that the perps won't win in the end.
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Re: Please help?

Postby TGFSmith » Fri Sep 13, 2013 6:27 pm

One of ours has been depressed lately. What has helped him was having someone who can understand what we have and are going through. A friend that can give her support and stability may help Alex. We've met plenty of people just like that on this website.

I hope the best for all of you.

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Re: Please help?

Postby Familyof3 » Fri Sep 13, 2013 7:16 pm

Issue is this body has no friends. Like, none. At all.
It makes things difficult to say the least. All we have is each other, but sometimes you need other physical bodies around you too to remind you that this world even wants you. :roll:


This body has been in near constant suicide mode since we were 10. We've survived 13 attempts and Alex dating this man was the one good thing that's happened to any of us. He accepted us, made us feel like we were needed, but now he's thrown us out like all the rest. It's getting so tiring trying to keep this body alive when none of us have any point for continuing besides fear of death.

We'd try a host change but no one in here has come forward yet to claim the remains of this pathetic existance.
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Re: Please help?

Postby TGFSmith » Fri Sep 13, 2013 7:59 pm

You're more than just a body; each of you is a person, and that's worthy in itself. I'm sorry for whatever has happened to you, but I believe that there is something out there. You're all strong.

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Re: Please help?

Postby theClan18 » Mon Sep 16, 2013 6:43 pm

Just was wondering how things were going...checking in and hoping things have started to look up and gotten a little better for ya
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Re: Please help?

Postby Familyof3 » Mon Sep 16, 2013 10:19 pm

im still kicking thanks to Birch. :D

im going through peaks and valleys emotion wise but thankfully i'm on a peak at the moment where can see that i can get through this eventually. still trying to fight off the urges for self destruction during the valleys but i guess i just have to take it hour by hour when i get like that.

this has shaken up the system and a group of new souls that are currently calling themselves the lost children stepped forward briefly but it's mostly been Birch and me holding the body. some people inside were really hurt when they realized they couldn't see my SO anymore, Tia especially because she was really bonded to him. it was really hard explaining to her that he wont be in our lives anymore and i think she took it as hard as i did almost. :?
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