Hi I'm new to this whole forum thing so stick with me
First about my issue, I lie to avoid confrontations or giving bad news. I then lie to cover up the first lie and I know to think that I some times lie so not to look bad. I don't feel comfortable with who I am so I see the only way to get around things is to lie.
Now I have destroyed my Marriage and tore my family apart, I wont go into everything as it will take to long and I don't want this topic to be about me. However I have lied to my wife many times but most recent I lost my job and never told her, then spent our saving (meant for our unborn child) trying to cover it up.
I'm posting here as I'm now sat at home all day job hunting and trying to think of ways to correct what I have done, but I have no one to talk to. My wife is still to angry to talk to me, as she only found out two days ago and I live away from family and friends (but talk on the phone to them in the evening)
I'm looking to get help and have made an appointment for next week. However I think everyone is thinking that me saying I need help is just another lie to get away with what I have done.
Please message me back about anything I'm looking to talk, it could be your own problem, about therapy, or even ways you have used to stop lying.
-- Fri Mar 08, 2013 8:16 am --
Oh just wanted to say I will be out for a lot of today but will look on here when I can to reply so if I don't get back to you right away don't give up I WILL REPLY.