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What Mental Disorder Is My friend? by monaalisaa on Wed Aug 31, 2016 1:14 am
Hello. I am a female in my 30s and I have been having a problem with a female friend of mine. She is 10 years older than I am, and I am aware that she is suffering from empty nest syndrome (first time living on her own). We have been friends for about 2 years now and everything has always been fine between us until I 1)started school 2) moved into a new house 3) got into a relationship. Before I explain what happened, let me tell you a bit about how and who she is, to give you a general idea.

-Her home is disgusting, filthy dirty, messy, nasty. She never cleans. Ever.
-She used to be a crack addict, but now uses cocaine and percocet pills.
-She is very loud and aggressive and oftentimes say things for reactions.
-She brags about having Bipolar, but I do not think she is Bipolar.
-She is extremely promiscuous, she seems to have a different sex partner (male or female) every other night. She has even made passes at me and touched my vagina through my jeans. I declined. Her rendezvous are usually always unprotected.
-She was sexually abused as a child, clearly.
-She has sex with both men and women and always has to have someone with her, can never be alone.
-She cheats in her relationships.
-She will smile in someone's face and tell them how wonderful they are and the second their back is turned she talks ill of them.
-She brags of the people she has sex with as if they are achievements.
-She brags about the fights she has gotten into and the damage she did to the person also as if they are achievements.
-Everyone is always "doing her so wrong" nothing is her fault.
-She cries a lot.
-She always has to be the center of attention whether it's visually or by her being loud.
-She is always wearing very loud colors in her hair and her clothing, always funky wild hair cuts, many tattoos and piercings.
-She literally can never be alone, and if she is, she is always on the phone.
-Her attention span is that of a fruit fly.
-Everything has to be about her, whether it's a friend trying to talk about their own problems she shifts them back to her....or whether it's planning to hang out it HAS to be something she wants to do.
-She steals from stores.

I could go on. Anyways, what happened is this. Everything was great until I started a very demanding semester. I alerted all of my friends to be courteous that I wouldn't be so available for the next 3 weeks until my final was out of the way. Still, as busy as I was I communicated with her because she was going through a break up. I had just moved into my new place but had invited her over any time she's like, even tho I was studying. She declined. She told me that if I wanted to see her that I would have to go there. Sigh.
I was still actively communicating with her, texting, calling, and on social media. I noticed she stopped responding to me......she even stopped "liking" my posts on social media but would like all my friends posts. Passive aggressive childishness, I know. Though, Id' still try. To no avail. During this time I got a boyfriend. I only dated him for a month and we only seen one another once a week (our schedules were awful and clashed). After my semester ended, I alerted my friends and was trying to get everyone together, she was the only one who didn't respond. She was actually ignoring my calls, social media messages, texts for weeks. I still tried. So, I asked her what was wrong and she deleted me from social media. I Panicked and ran to her house with her favorite color flowers and a card trying to apologize for nothing. I feel I wasn't wrong. I am trying to better my life in school and all my friends know and support this and are aware that sometimes I am going to be unavailable...even though I make up for it when I do have free time. She claimed I was neglecting her for months. This is not true, I was actively communicating and she was ignoring me. She claimed since I met my boyfriend that I have not cared about her. This is also untrue. I only ever...

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Im looking to merge with self! the idea is to merge with the time period I got destroyed; and its possible because Ive done massive work! ITs about remembering who I was at that age, what I was thinking...

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Things are changing! by OMNICELL on Thu Jul 20, 2017 6:26 pm
Things are getting better or I have specific goals that look like me as a healthier personality! I have goals that require that I have better mental health! This does not mean I don't have the disorders...

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Re: Gambling Addicition by Snaga on Thu Jul 20, 2017 4:32 pm
You might consider posting in Gambling Addiction forum, the blogs are good for journaling but don't get much in the way of replies.

Re: Cal, age 30. Alter #57 by Johnny-Jack on Tue Jul 18, 2017 3:59 am
Well, Calvin isn't as old as we first guessed. Our best estimate now is he's 15 and only seems older because he took over from an adult and was able to hold onto some of the maturity. A similar thing happened...

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Re: MY HUSBAND SAYS I HAVE RUINED HIS LIFE by Snaga on Sat Jul 15, 2017 7:36 pm
Consider posting this in Relationships forum, the blogs might not get much response. Thanks!

Re: Summary of who we are by Johnny-Jack on Sat Jul 15, 2017 3:14 pm
Cal 30, #57. Host or host-like alter similar to John but younger. He seems better at getting therapy moving, increasing internal communication. Has a higher and slightly hoarse-soundng voice.

Re: Breakup #10 within 4 Months by Snaga on Fri Jul 14, 2017 3:10 am
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