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Changes by OMNICELL on Fri Mar 18, 2016 12:07 pm
So, the social change is occurring! Im starting to stand on my own 2 feet and reach back! I still have dissociative disorder! But hopeful I will get better and be able to forget about the 20 years of misery ive put into my recovery process! It's not exactly ivory or misery! Its like a cancer patient! They are grateful to be alive one more day! But it's not fun!

So, Im starting to remember who I am before I came to this town!

People in general or worthless as for telling the truth or being honest or caring about you as a person! They wont! I must get those things from God!

Its seems that when your better; then people respond to you; by then its to late! I don't need their responses when Im having success! I need their responses when Im struggling! No one wants to show up in the middle of the struggle; only the successes!

Im hitting a margin point with social anxiety do to PTSD and dissociative disorder! Im winning! And Im heading back to the recovery stage!

The goal 10 years ago; be able to collect 100 phone numbers! And never be alone again! And this is a huge deal for someone completely disabled through dissociative disorder and AVPD! And all the other stuff!

For me; It seemed an impossible deal! Much like the Wright brothers; " we are going to fly a plane"! It must have seemed an impossible dream, but they did it! They weren't the first or only! But they were close! They were officially the first! Legally the first! I guess! Don't quote me!

The point is; Im at that place that Im taking people out to coffee! Im taking women out to coffee! Im taking friends out to coffee! Im showing up around people; shaking hands! Not running off! People are getting closer to me!

Im not running away because someone else's behavior does not fit my behavior or they are looking at me negatively!
Learning to stand my ground with some people and let it pass; their behavior; and I'm not running away!
Fear and being scared are huge issues for me!

The people I was brought up with; these people scared me! I went to God when one of them died! God let me know I was safe! I did not want to be forced to think about or feel anything for these scum bags any longer! They were in human animals!

One important point; understanding the past! Understanding that no one is coming back for me, or cares ! And with the outside help Im getting; I no longer care or realistically need them to come back! Ive grieved a mass loss off pain and understanding from these people! What they were; what they were not! I did not need them in order to do this! Actually, God sent me back into them for a while to learn from them and about them! I saw first hand what they were and had always been! They were no friends of mine; they were strangers! Thieves and liars!

Don't get mad; forgive and run away and never return! I don't care what they did to you! Get out of their! Count your losses and never go back! Forgive them the dept.! If God wants me to have what they stole; I will get it back!

ITs better to go in Gods direction and build a new life then to waist it on creeps and criminals because they stole your money!

Life is a tricky mess; the best solution is to find the God of the Universe and do what God says!

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A head full of goals; a head full of negativity!

I have a head full of goals; where once it was full of hatred!

I have a head full of negativity Im tying to analyze and understand!

The goal is; get rid of the negative thinking down the visualization chain! When I manifest a desire; and I want a finished goal! I do not want negative blocks and limiting beliefs in the way!

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Letting go of the past; The biggest problem has been processing the past without it! Meaning;...

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BPD by Lillybug on Tue Jan 17, 2017 11:34 pm
Living with bpd is painful, upsetting and extremely tiring. I don't know anybody else with this condition and would love the chance to chat with other borderlines so I can get a better understanding of...

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Starting Day 3 by Determined0707 on Tue Jan 17, 2017 11:38 am
Morning, beginning day 3 of my recovery. Have spent the last couple of days working on a plan, will post it on a few days. I have gained a lot of insight from other post I have been reading. Any one have...

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Tuesday 17 January by Just Jeff on Tue Jan 17, 2017 7:47 am
Tuesday 17 January
38 days sober
RR 90%

God,
Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change.
The courage to change the things I can.
And the wisdom to know the difference.
Amen.
……..
Remember for...

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Rude awakening by Determined0707 on Tue Jan 17, 2017 2:47 am
So day two is coming to an end and I am proud to say it is ending gambling free. I made it to the gas station. As I walked inside all I could do was repeat over and over in my head "I will not buy...

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sensuality and sensibility by wasp_rainbowarrior on Mon Jan 16, 2017 8:27 pm
yesterday late night i sneaked out to have sex with a guy. not totally stranger, since i'd talked to him for a long time before, but stranger enough. let him do things to me that i knew i hated. i believe...

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Re: my first dream with my abuser in years by Snaga on Wed Jan 18, 2017 3:01 am
No, there isn't! My whole life has been spent in second guessing, and regret. There's absolutely nothing good in that. Don't be like me.

Re: sensuality and sensibility by Snaga on Tue Jan 17, 2017 10:44 am
(((hugs)))

Re: Rude awakening by Snaga on Tue Jan 17, 2017 10:44 am
Good for you!

Re: my first dream with my abuser in years by wasp_rainbowarrior on Mon Jan 16, 2017 8:12 pm
i suppose there's always a conflict. i would probably not be mentally healthy even if my abuse had not happened (sex has always been something disorganising for me), but i do relate some intense and recurrent...

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Re: Supposed To Be Strong by Elyora on Mon Jan 16, 2017 2:34 am
[quote="caughtinafray"]Strength isn't determined by how you feel, that's just a matter of our minds tell us. Strength is manifested in your actions. Perseverance is a prime example of it ...

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