by Unknown_1 » Wed Oct 17, 2012 2:46 pm
Firstly, my heart goes out to everyone who has this. It is horrible, and when people point it out, it makes it even worse. I was taunted about this when I was young, and it really traumatised me. It definitely has fed into my AvPD and Social Anxiety. I have been to doctors about this, and they have said this occurs when I get anxious, my body heat rises, and therefore I get redder and redder, which in turn reinforces my anxiety because Im worried people are looking. I have found relaxation exercises and hypnosis to be of some help, and CBT can help with reducing the unhelpful thinking that reinforces the blushing. But to be honest I have found using a beta-blocker most useful when I know I am likely to blush, because it calms your nervous system, and thus physically you cant blush. It isnt something I (should) take regularly, but it is good for social things I cant avoid.
I hope you find some relief
One does not abandon, even briefly, one's bed of nails, but is attached to it wherever one goes-William Styron
It's hard enough to live in a land where you don't belong, but knowing it, holding conflicting realities in your head, will drive you mad-Mad Hatter