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Re: verbal abusive mother

Postby whybother » Thu Mar 08, 2012 8:59 am

I apologise I went too far.

Caring for a toddler requires round the clock attention and while I am not sure convinced it would be a good thing for you, IF that is what you want go for it.

What it would cost you emotionally and financially (at the moment) has me concerned.

Sorry.

Good luck on Saturday.
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Re: verbal abusive mother

Postby jenicho » Thu Mar 08, 2012 10:16 am

whybother wrote:Caring for a toddler requires round the clock attention and while I am not sure convinced it would be a good thing for you, IF that is what you want go for it.


I'm aware of that and i'm gonna make sure i have all the resources i need before i take responsibility.

whybother wrote:Good luck on Saturday.


Thanks :D
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Re: verbal abusive mother

Postby jenicho » Tue Mar 13, 2012 4:30 am

i just finished my exam. they say it will take a month for the result. for now, i'm preparing to look for a job :)
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Re: verbal abusive mother

Postby whybother » Tue Mar 13, 2012 6:18 am

I always found how I felt immediately after leaving an exam was a good indication of how I went. Therefore I hope you felt brillant.

For the new month, if only to get you out from under your mother roof, take any work. Even if that means you can leave you brain in bed when you go out.

Please also consider working a summer camp to get away from your mother.

Has there been that fight yet? Or has mother been good?
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Re: verbal abusive mother

Postby jenicho » Thu Mar 15, 2012 4:20 pm

took long to reply because my pc needs to be reformatted :(

whybother wrote:I always found how I felt immediately after leaving an exam was a good indication of how I went. Therefore I hope you felt brillant.

after the exam i took a long walk and recount how i did. that helped me feel better :)

whybother wrote:For the new month, if only to get you out from under your mother roof, take any work. Even if that means you can leave you brain in bed when you go out.

while looking for work, i'm gonna attend modular caregiver lessons here in town to make me go out of the house. they already gave me a certificate for "emergency rescue" training :)

whybother wrote:Has there been that fight yet? Or has mother been good?

No fight yet. Her attitude shows up every other time but not that intense. Although i don't wanna go out with her, i need to or else my sister can't go out too. She can't manage my sister outside of the house so she needs me. :|
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Re: verbal abusive mother

Postby whybother » Thu Mar 15, 2012 9:48 pm

jenicho wrote:took long to reply because my pc needs to be reformatted :( :


We are all volunteers getting here when possible...... or when we need help. Therefore no need worry.

Sounds like your computer needs replacement.

Jenicho wrote: I have a 1 year old adopted sister whom she curses, shouts at when she's angry. Considering that that child is some kind of hyperactive. She also screams at her early in the morning when she gets pissed off at her. I told her once that it's not good for the child but she just ignored me. :


several posts ago

Bloody hope your sister is not going out on her own. You might now understand why I worried about you taking your adopted sister out of your parents home. Now I'm thinking there might be a mis print creating a misconstrue.
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Re: verbal abusive mother

Postby jenicho » Fri Mar 16, 2012 6:33 am

whybother wrote:Sounds like your computer needs replacement.

true. when i already have a job. i will buy a laptop for my first month salary

today we went out and eat fast food with my sister. i feel so bad just to sit next to mum :x i am full of rage inside, i don't even wanna look at her.

she can watch over my sister outside to play with neighbours' kids but when it comes to going to malls, parks etc. she can't manage. :|
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Re: verbal abusive mother

Postby whybother » Sat Mar 17, 2012 2:00 am

Because I am not really happy today I will make just four points.

1/ child-abuse/topic83978.html might help you know where I am comming from.

2/ In the Members Corner is a Vent forum. As the name suggests it is a place for members to vent. People are not supposed to reply, doesn't mean they wont. Just not supposed to. You could also blog on this site. Conversely if you want a laugh have a look at some of the Off Topic threads.

3/ If you want to extend the life of your computer's life consider replacing Windows with one of the Linux Operating systems.

4/ If your sister is not 1, how old is she?
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Re: verbal abusive mother

Postby jenicho » Sat Mar 17, 2012 4:16 am

whybother wrote:Because I am not really happy today I will make just four points.


i hope you'll feel better soon :|

whybother wrote:4/ If your sister is not 1, how old is she?


she will be 2 on april 16
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Re: verbal abusive mother

Postby whybother » Sat Mar 17, 2012 9:58 pm

You can also on line journal here. You have to ask a mod. to set it up for you. I believe

Could your mother's not coping be some kind of phobia?
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