How do you let go?

I left my verbally abusive husband about 8 months ago. I feel like he anhilated my soul. I'm better now, but how do you let go?
I'm still going through a nasty nasty divorce. He actually has delusional jealousy disorder and is possibly borerline too. So I spend a lot of time in the Delusional Disorder forum. Do you ever get over this? I don't know if I can ever forgive him. We do have a daughter together. We have to co parent at one point. It's gonna be hard since I have a DVO in place. Anyone have any advice?

MovingOn, sorry about the late reply. You don't have to forgive him. It's up to him to prove that he can be a parent to your daughter. You can let go of some of the anger and frustration with time, probably. I have to deal with an abuser too, although my situation is different, and it just get easier and you become stronger with time. Getting support helps.